Octavious - with reference to your last para, I quote Pantheon:
"I also note zimzam's comments below about cliques who 'try to run' this site - and, have private chat threads running, often in old threads".
Firstly, I for one, am not part of any clique on AB & don't wish to be. I do not have the time or inclination!
Secondly, if I receive an email from another AB'er leading me an 'old' thread, then I will/may participate to a point, then leave when I feel I've outstayed my welcome.
Back to the real world!