being 30?

[dot.hawkes]

I am in a quandry, i really am unsure where I should be in life, what would be the best course?

[mightyWBA]

On average less than half way from death,so cheer up you sily old sausage!

[mightyWBA]

silly

[n00dles]

dot,

Why did you lie on the Mastermind quiz t'other night, and say you were much older? Was it to get the sympathy vote?

The best course would be to start telling the truth!! Lol ;o)

[dot.hawkes]

Oh I never lie noodles. Never was no good at mastermind stuff, it's the leather chair, makes me feel all uncomfortable.

[willa]

I'm 44 (tick tock) and still am unsure.

Let me tell you what wouldn't be the best course: quitting an acceptable job to loll about at home, depressed and eating chocolates and gaining 5 stone in 4 years waiting for inspiration to strike.

[PinkFizz]

Hmmmm,im sure you were much older when I read an old thread months ago! lol

[unruliejulie]

yeah, me too dot! so come on now, no lying about your age......

[wonder years]

hiya dot.hawkes i used to think when iwas in my 20s as you got older it all became clearer as you went along, for some people it works like that for others not so, things happen in life somtimes that idealy you cant be were you whant to be,this is not allways a bad thing waiting, may turn up somthing even better, remember you can allways change the future but not the past,look at the good things in your life,hopfuly they will cancel out the bad, and the best course maybe justing things day by day and somthing will turn up that oppertunity wiil be there somwere

[scruffscat]

Its a bit of a milestone isnt it? when i was 30 i was engaged ,an thought that was my life planned out. Im now 38 (next month) goin through a divorce!! , just sold my house and mpving in with a fab bloke i met nearly 19 months ago- oh also gained a lovely little girl ( bfs) too.What im sayin is you think its all planned out and on course, but you never know whats around the next corner.Ive learned now iust to go with the flow,and so long as your paddlin your own canoe its ok.Ive also learned to love and apreciate what i have more. x

[Robinia]

dot if you think you're 30 then you're in a lot more than a quandry.....

I think some assistance is required here........

[sexyrussian]

Interesting you are 30 dotty since on another post you said you were a grandmother and enjoy taking your granddaughter out for a walk.OOPS.I actualoly thought you didn't lie but now I know you do I realise how hypercripical you were saying I am a lier.If you are going to lie then don't make it so obvious.

[joby1]

or just stop tellin porkie's

[loopyc]

hi dot happy birthday you little minx, i have only just realised what i want to do in life so i am going to uni in january and im 32. i dont think you know where to go in life until you have lived a little and got a little life experience under your belt, what ever you decide to do im sure you wil be great at it x

[loopyc]

just realised that didnt answer your question at all, sorry x

[joby1]

don't be sorry loopy, dot is busy at the mo!!

[Pippa68]

Don't you just love it when humour goes right over someones head?

it kills me :o)

[Robinia]

yep Pippa lol!

[Dollie]

Awww - well disappointed now Dot - thought we were around the same age - thought that one day we may end up in the same nursing home - something like the 'Bide A Wee' Home for the Bewlidered, where we could while away the hours discussing our mis-spent youth posting daft threads on this website Doll xx