on a downer

[Trinny]

You think things are going ok............then you get made redundant. Not been there long enough for any kind of redundancy pay off.... Things go from bad to worst. Any words of encouragement would be nice.

[lindapinda]

Night babes..be kind to yourself xx

[ELVIS68]

There`s always someone worse off than yaself


Sh!t happens but it`s never as bad as you think it is

[mrknowall]

yeh your right elivis lol

[legend759]

im always in the sh!t.its just a mattter of how deep.

[lindapinda]

Thats true Elvis..but..you can only put it into perspective,sometimes,with time. Events can be too raw to do that immeadiatlely.

[red~bez]

Yes Elvis....I'm also in agreement......There are things that have happened in my life.....and I thought....never going to get over this.......I have.....took a while.....but I got there. :)

[ELVIS68]

Life can be sh!t.... you either clean it off or carry it around with you

Me, I like to clean it off and carry on with a smile ;o)

[lindapinda]

Hi Bez...How's you?..

[legend759]

sorry to say life is like being on a beach.just when you get over your troubles and things are settled another wave comes along to disturb stuff again.beware of complacencey and getting too comfortable.thers always someone thinks your chair is comfier than theirs and they just gotta sit in it to try it out.

[red~bez]

Elvis.....as I said..took a while but I got there x

Linda I'm fine mate.....xx

[red~bez]

Legend not so......it took me until I was 34 to find the one....had alot of sh!it relationships in my life before that......but in the end I found him......I acually didn't like him too much when I first saw him...thought he was a bore....turned out he was just quiet.....

[legend759]

glad for you bez.im a bit sceptical as i said ive met so many perfect women.though looking back after theyve gone they dont seem to have done much better.maybe they werent right?

[lindapinda]

I agree with you Elvis..you have to carry on..what else can you do?..I just think that,when troubles are raw..you have to normalize yourself to them,before you can go ahead with the rest of your life.

[society]

Hiya Trinny,

Keep faith, there is something better out there for you. It might be rough now but soon all this will be water under the bridge. Everything happens for a reason. Stay strong and remember when one door closes another opens.

xx

[Roughquest]

Oh god Trinny, that is a horrid thing to go through, that happened to me in 2005 after being with a company for 8 years! i was gutted i loved that job too....and i went through a mix of emotions - the strongest one was feeling dejected and worthless, like i had been thrown away like a piece of rubbish....Im so sorry - but I know you are an intelligent person and you will go out and get another job - keep thinking positive, there is work out there for the people that want it I beleive. Be strong, I know you are !
Thinking of you !
RQ xxxxx

[Trinny]

Thanks Roughquest. Yes I do feel pretty worthless. But hopefully something will turn up soon. xxxx