Insecure/ Unknowledgeable

[keychy]

I have been with my boyfriend for two years. I love him. He is a good father, man, and friend. I have been pregnant once. Somtimes my vagina is tight and very satisfying to him and sometimes I am loose. I have never cheated on my boyfriend. Even after not having sex for four to five days my vagina may be loose. Is there any medical proof or advice that one can give to help him understand that just because at times I may be loose, doesn't mean I am unfaithful?

[andy hughes]

If your partner is in need of physical or medical evidence to prove you are fauthful, the problem doesn't lie with your vagina. You need to have a talk with him about why he feels that you may be cheating on him. Tell him you love him, you are faithful, and tell hime (again!) that the condition of a woman's vagina is not a barometer of her sexual activity. If that doesn't work, try seeing if he will go to Relate with you. This is an issue of faith and trust, it's emotional, not physcial, so try and approach it from that angle, and see what hapens. Good luck.

[worder]

keychy, andy is right to a point. it has nothing to do with your physical features internal or external, the problem is this guy's head. i know, i was married to one such person for 11 years, i finally gave up, and made it out alive, literally. seek counseling asap, if he will not go, then go for yourself. also, if you think he is going to change, you may be wishing upon a star, people do not change. there are exceptions, of course, i have not met many, just don't waste years of your life hoping it will all be. luck does not always happen, sometimes we have to make it happen. all the best,keychy

[zeus]

andy are a love psychologist or sumthin?? your advise to alot of questions give that impression. (quality answers)