dateing...... for one night only

[reception]

a guy at work had been chasing me for nearly 6 months and when i finally agreed to go out with him for a drink after that we met at my house and had mad sex... when i got to work the next day he did nt want to know me..LOL sex was that bad.????? he said he had too many problems at home and he could,t see me any more and said lets just be friends....well i had no choice i work with him. i need my job. please tell me he's a weriodo or something.

[brucie1996]

Might be thrill of the chase!!! however, if he has "loads of problems" do you want all that c@@p?

[sn�gs]

Yep... thrill of the chase... or you were truly cr@p in bed...

[NoMercy]

He used you. Now you have satisfied his curiosity, and his sexual needs, he will now move on and chase someone else. Don't bother with him, but do make sure he sees you laughing, joking, and completely indifferent to his lack of interest. x

[sn�gs]

Maybe reception used him too...

[NoMercy]

If that were the case, Snags, I don't think reception would have bothered asking our opinions on the matter. Obviously she is confused and may even be more upset than she is letting on.

Reception - how come there was never any mention of his "problems" in the six months he was chasing you? He didn't let his problems get in the way of a good sh@g, did he? (sorry to be so blunt!)

[brucie1996]

Put it down to experiance learn form it.........MOVE ON & do what NoMercy says be the lift & soul

[brucie1996]

Sorry that should be the life & soul

[NoMercy]

Exactly !

But don't be sarcastic or ignorant to him - he will see this as a sign that you are upset. Just be really casual and act as though it never happened. That will put a huge dent in his pride. !!

[brucie1996]

We are on the same wave NoMercy........like me you know what male pride is like

[NoMercy]

Well I'm looking at it from a totally different point of view, Brucie. I'm a laydee !!

[redcrx]

yey. does this mean you finally got rid of your hubby?

[brucie1996]

So am I!!!! Brucie is my CAT

[NoMercy]

Oops........

LOL x

[madmaggot]

If you wanted a meaningful relationship I'm wondering why you had intercourse on the first date? Maybe your lack of self respect gave him the message that you are not the type that he would want an ongoing relationship with?

Perhaps you moved things on too quickly after 6 months of saying no and then you suddenly pounced!

Just put it down to experience and move on.

[Velvetee]

He enjoyed the chase for 6 months, but the catch was too easy and the game is over!

He got what he wanted and you are of no further use. He used you and you allowed it, this is what many men do. As others have said, put it down to experience. Ignore the *** rag back.

[brucie1996]

Hi Velvetee i was askingin CB was you a Mummy yet? How are you?

[tamborine]

poor lad....you exhausted him - no stamina, some blokes.

He'll be back - after some bevvies. Dont bother changing sheets.

[khoey]

game over! you slept with him on a first date,men relish a chase, you should have kept him waiting another six months and he would have been putty in your hands.but he never mentioned the problems while he was chasing you.ummm a feeble excuse I think.

[caththecrazy]

tell him the one problem he does has is the size of his anatomy

[khoey]

better still!if his being a d!ck

tell him you`ve seen bigger on a chicken.