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Ex Refusing To Tell New Address
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My son and his partner of 5 years split up 2 years ago. He moved back home with me.
His ex lived in the next town and we where always looking after my 4 year old grandson so she could work during the week and also have him every weekend. They even work at the same place.
She recently went away for a week and we had my grandson so she could do this, although her family lived nearer to her she asked if we could do it.
She got a new boyfriend about 3 months ago and moved in with him 2 months ago. No problem there except she refuses to give my son the address and when we pick him up we have to meet her at the side of the road away from where she now lives.
She has moved 30 miles away.
She always dropped him off on a Friday and we took him back on a Sunday as it was better for my son as Sunday is the one day he doesn’t work.
All of a sudden it’s that we have to pick him up on a Friday. She gives us a specific time to pick him up and if there is a difference of 10 minutes either way she kicks off, yet she can be 2hrs late picking him up and her and her new boyfriend just laugh in my sons face.
Her new partner won’t acknowledge my son even though my son has tried to say hello to him etc.
My son is now thinking of getting solicitors involved as she is totally unapproachable.
Does he have the right to know where his son is living.
Can I add there is no restraining orders against him or anything. Everything was amicable until this new chap came along
Many thanks
My son and his partner of 5 years split up 2 years ago. He moved back home with me.
His ex lived in the next town and we where always looking after my 4 year old grandson so she could work during the week and also have him every weekend. They even work at the same place.
She recently went away for a week and we had my grandson so she could do this, although her family lived nearer to her she asked if we could do it.
She got a new boyfriend about 3 months ago and moved in with him 2 months ago. No problem there except she refuses to give my son the address and when we pick him up we have to meet her at the side of the road away from where she now lives.
She has moved 30 miles away.
She always dropped him off on a Friday and we took him back on a Sunday as it was better for my son as Sunday is the one day he doesn’t work.
All of a sudden it’s that we have to pick him up on a Friday. She gives us a specific time to pick him up and if there is a difference of 10 minutes either way she kicks off, yet she can be 2hrs late picking him up and her and her new boyfriend just laugh in my sons face.
Her new partner won’t acknowledge my son even though my son has tried to say hello to him etc.
My son is now thinking of getting solicitors involved as she is totally unapproachable.
Does he have the right to know where his son is living.
Can I add there is no restraining orders against him or anything. Everything was amicable until this new chap came along
Many thanks
Answers
Your son has every right to know where his own child lives. If there is some sort of medical emergency whilst he is in your son's care then the health officials will need to the child's address and GP. There is no guarantee that the hospital will be able to contact the child's mother. It won't be long until the child will be able to tell you where he lives, most 5 year...
12:35 Sun 21st Aug 2022
Does you son have child support order and are custody arrangements in place? Maybe pick up and drop of should be arranged for local police station or similar then if she his late it can be noted by an authority. Your son needs to regularise all arrangements in case of problems in the future. His solicitor should probably have an address for the ex
Your son has every right to know where his own child lives. If there is some sort of medical emergency whilst he is in your son's care then the health officials will need to the child's address and GP. There is no guarantee that the hospital will be able to contact the child's mother.
It won't be long until the child will be able to tell you where he lives, most 5 year olds can recite their address.
It won't be long until the child will be able to tell you where he lives, most 5 year olds can recite their address.
She could have moved in to the boyfriends home and he doesn't want her ex at his door; it could be totally unsuitable accommodation and she doesn't want the ex to know; there could be a history of ex turning up unexpectedly and causing a disturbance. Or she might just be a spiteful woman who wants everything done her way.
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