Can you all stop quarreling and taking offence, please? Sorry to be a spoilsport, but half of me has been wanting to hug my ex-neighbours and townsfolk at their silent vigil in the little square by the war memorial this morning and it hurts that I can't. The whole picture is too big for nit-picking. I really don't want to upset anyone, but I've been appalled at how some members (not on this thread), just seem to be seizing an excuse to pick on an ill-thought-out phrase. I've probably put my foot in it, sorry again.