Barmaid, I did enough on the lashing in my early life to last me a lifetime! I am now 73 and have medical issues. But the memories are good. I am eternally grateful I was young through the swinging sixties and seventies and made the most of it. We have had an active life until recent years. Actually being at home suits me now. Like you we are very rural and live with only a few fairly near neighbours who we hardly see. We are both nature lovers and now lovers of the quiet life. I do feel a bit sorry for the young during these times, but they will get over it. Times will change.