Me And My Mom Not Talking

[Sandee562]

So I moved in to my moms house 1 year ago when my dad passed away thinking it was gonna help her out now she's moving like selling the house and not even telling me a thing about nothing we haven't even talked for like 3 weeks my older brother hes 45 and not married no kids and can't live without mommy might I add he molested me as a child and now he's putting all kinds of dumb things in my moms head about me...only reason I say that he is its cause I over heard one too many of there conversations I don't know what to do my mom and brother stay saying I'm a leach when clearly I'm the one paying her rent not my older brother he don't pay a penny outta pocket but yet I'm the bad person here im confused I need help advice etc...anyone

[bhg481]

Move out and leave them to it. Forget they exist. Ignore all correspondence.

[woofgang]

I agree, why do you stay?

[Canary42]

Hear hear ! - leave and let them get on with it.

[roopower]

Agree. You've lived away from home before - do it again

[barry1010]

Move out today. It really is that simple.

[bednobs]

well if she's selling the house you'll have to move out anyway, so JFDI

[allenlondon]

JFDI?

More a case of YSCSTIIFFS!

And Sandee stop starting sentences with ‘So.’

[bednobs]

what sentences? ;)

[HansUrbancka]

What's your son say about it?

[Sandee562]

Well my son is 18 years old and he is very disturbed on how my mom treats me cause he gets to see both sides due to him staying in the house with my mom see I stay in the garage with my husband and my son hates the fact on how she treats me he thinks that I shouldn't get treated that way knowing that I'm the only one that helps her out in any way... he gets bummed out when my mom trys to bad mouth about me to him and since she speaks Spanish to him he only understands some of the things she says

[Sandee562]

What does jfdi mean or all those letters???

[Sandee562]

Barry1010 wish it was that simple I would of left along time ago

[jennyjoan]

I have read the post over and over again. Where does Sandee's son come in/mentioned

[HansUrbancka]

G'morning jennyjoan......I was wondering when someone would be sharp enough to spot what you have.

It's a matter of an Internet search . It's interesting sometimes to discover what can be established from a 'username' if it's been used on more than one site.

Hope you are keeping OK......Hans.

[jennyjoan]

A wee quick spotter me, LOL - am doing fine Hans and hope you are too.

[bednobs]

why isn't it that simple? If you are paying rent, just pay rent somewhere else? JFDI means just flipping do it