In a group discussion on an outing this subject came up. Some of us have not really had any relationship since turning 50. So not sure how it is dealing with men our own age. Many woman start looking for the younger guys. The same thing as a female some say they loose their libido. At this age we want to keep the excitement going.
My Husb is mid 50s whilst I’m mid 40s. I used to have a much higher libido than him (opp prob to many couples lol) but I hit an early menopause a few years ago
and my libido went out the door without even a wave goodbye! Which gave him a sense of relief lol. So now we both have (almost) zero desire for sex BUT ... we do still hold hands, hug, laugh, cuddle etc. We are lucky in that It works for us -
We both joke about it a lot too.