Can you break it down into easily manageable chunks for me to work through? Could you tell me what it is that has happened, where, and when? And then could you tell me what you would like?
Dont worry Tambo. Best answers are as rare as hen's teeth these days. Doubt you would have got one. I sometimes try really really hard to give quickest, best, answer most answers where there are a list of questions, research something endlessly when it is a really difficult one etc etc and get not a single best. The last one I got was ages ago and I had been not helpful at all, even slightly rude! and amazingly got a bestie.