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irishchic2012 | 22:17 Thu 19th Jan 2012 | Jobs & Education
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I'm 15 and this boy in my class has been texting me can i take a picture of myself with no trousers or top on and that he'd do the same and I said no and and then he said "aw come on it'll between the two of us that no one else would know". I then stopped writing to him, but the past while he's been asking me very inappropriate questions (in his words dirty) and i said that i didnt want to answer them and then he said he was only taking the Fosters and then i thought fair enough he doesn't want me to answer these then but he still did! and i would answer them feeling really uncomfortable and felt like i had to break the ice with an :L then a while later he wanted me to ask him questions and I said i didn't want to and he said that he didn't mind, but yet i still felt awful doing this. he asked me had i got a six pack cause he had one and then i said yea more like a two pack and then he would ask me to send him a picture of it and i said no it's more flab than fab and then he said he wouldn't judge and i said no but he then forced me to do it :( .. this also occurred a few weeks back at the christmas break and with another boy in my class i came back to school and with my friend we went to my year head/ dean and he was lovely about it and dealt with it as best as he could but that he couldn't punish the boy because it was during the holidays and then said that if I get any more messages like this to come to him with them.. what do i do? he's in my class please any advice on what this is? thanks
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Is this the same issue as was covered in your previous thread?
http://www.theanswerb.../Question1091755.html
I think the responses you'll get are likely to be along the same lines
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its a different issue with another boy
I take it that this is the same boy you were talking about here http://www.theanswerb.../Question1091755.html

Go to the year head again - don't even think about not reporting this boy yet again.

How can he have forced you to take pictures of yourself and send it to him, what did he say he would do if you didn't?

This boy's bullying you now, and it's not funny. Report it. Tomorrow.

Btw have you told your parents about this? You haven't mentioned them once in all this. They should know you're being harrassed, you're still a minor.
Different boy, same issue.
It's a different boy then - how come this has happened, why do these boys pick on you like this? Definitely report it then - this can't go on.
My first piece of advice would be to avoid getting involved. Do not reply at all.
Speak to your parents and/or the school, or the police if it is becoming serious
Don't believe him when he says nobody else will know. The best thing you can do it just bin the texts when they come in, don't respond.
Go see yr head like he told you to to ignore them
The boys will soon get fed up and bored with someone who doesn't respond

Oh and change your number

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