Question for men re the bedroom dept! (but would love womens opinions too)

[Smowball]

Was chatting to a friend over the weekend about the age old joke that when women aren't "in the mood" they say they have a headache blah blah.
So we started chatting about what men do when their ladies are in a saucy mood but the man just isn't.


Do you also pretend to have a headache, say you are tired, ........??
Or does this never happen?lol

C'mon, be honest.....

[Spotty Dog]

Not in a position to answer this. I've only been married 45 years.

[Ann]

Bet it never happens ..... come on now these are MEN we are talking about! ;)

[ummmm]

Has never happened.....lol...he would do it in his sleep!!!

[Zeuhl]

I just say I've got to go home to the wife :-)

[Smowball]

lol Spotty, yes you would need to know each other a bit longer!

[gordyagusta]

a scenario that never has happened.......just never... the concept of a woman making the first move is completely inconcievable....in my world anyway....

[Frank97]

Don't know, never found myself in that position!

[JonnyBoy12]

I need help with one of you ladies to help me answer this question. Any takers, ladies?

[chaptazbru]

IMO men are ALWAYS up for it !!

[Old_Geezer]

Whilst your body is able to do so then barring being too ill to want to bother with life, why pass up the opportunity ? Ok maybe if very tired. But then no excuses are needed. It's obvious it's a bad time. And when you reach the age that you need 24 hours notice well.... at least you're close to matching the female timetable at last.

[Smowball]

You guys are seriously saying that ladies never make the first move??

[ummmm]

I do :-)

[Smowball]

Thank god for that ummmm, was beginning to think it was just me!

[dickythecook]

Two sayings, What's seldom is mavellous.
Chance would be a fine thing!

[pizza]

They've obviously not met the right women smowball lol

[ummmm]

He's never turned me down, whereas I've told him to feck off and leave me alone :-)

[andy-hughes]

Looks like I am going to be the exception (again!).

On occasions where I am simply not up for it (oh for heaven's sake!!!) I will simply say so, and the present Mrs Hughes will be similarly honest. We have never gone down the 'headache' route - if you can't be honest as a couple, it's a bit sad.

[gordyagusta]

ummm: and there lies the problem....

[ummmm]

It's not a problem.....I give him his dinner and he falls asleep...

[mccfluff]

i've made the first move :-)