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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Andy, I totally agree. For me, Christmas is a Religious time, but also just a time for my husband to be able to relax for several days and for us all to be together, I do love the christmas package, the fun, planning, sparkly things, the carols...I just love those, but the spend spend spend is just horrific. Every year you are supposed to somehow better the one before...I have five children and so christmas is a one big budget juggle. This year I am making gifts for nearly everyone. I have really thought about that person and often pray for them while I am making their gift, but I am making them to try to give something that is more personal and with a much greater sacrifice (that of time) than going down the highstreet and buying yet another thing they don't need.
In today's culture, nobody really needs anything. If you need something, generally you buy it there and then. Christmas today is about extras and often those extras are unwanted. It is just terrible really. I hate the comercialism of Christmas...
Rant over....Sorry about that folks...(I'm not really a scrooge)
I think we all feel the same really that we spend lots of money on things that we do not want.you bye some one a present they bye you a present so infact you have bought your self a present that probably you did not need .
I have started to stop byeing so much at christmas for my family i know it might sound mean but i think that Christmas has got all out of hand the only people benifitting from xmas is the shops. i try now to bye a bit more for there birthdays, i give them something at xmas but i have started to get shoe boxes from a friend that goes to our local church, you pick either to fill it for a girl or boy there is a list in it as to what sort of things to put in it, it is for a child normaly in a very poor country.
My family are happy, healthy, and compared to some have way too much myself included, so this year i will get an xtra box or 2 and fill it and hope that it gives a child lots of happiness, some might say charity begins at home but at christmas i think we should all start to think beyond our selfs and our wants.
I'm sorry you lot don't seem like you're going to enjoy Christmas because i love it. I know that it's got commercialised, but it's up to you how far you let it go. You have to decide how much you can afford to spend, but I think it's worth saving up for because you're buying people treats they probably wouldn't buy themselves.
I love going to my parents for Christmas because the whole family get together and we spend hours over our Christmas dinner. This year is special because my partner and I are doing our first family Christmas on our own with our children when we'll be making our own customs. Our eldest is learning about how it's Jesus' birthday which is why we swap presents, and has started singing carols which always make me cry. Add Father Christmas, tinsel and fairies onto that and I'm in heaven.
I say stop moaning and make it what you want it to be, and God bless us everyone!!
Well I was starting to feel guilty reading some of these, as I've just posted a question on CB asking what people are buying their other halves for Christmas!
I have to agree with an awful lot of what's been said, although I do share Gathorne's sentiments too. I know the preparations & lead up to Christmas can be very tiring, but once the doorbell goes & one by one, our two daughters, son-in-laws & grandchildren arrive - it's not long before that's behind us. My husband & daughters all muck in, which makes life a lot easier. I only wish we still had our parents with us to enjoy it too.
Perhaps I've got a romantic view of Christmas, but to all have the time to sit at the table together for a change, chatting & toasting all our loved ones - I think it's worth it.
P.S. I think the idea of putting gifts in a shoe box for underpriviledged children is a wonderful idea Loocfox.
I have to say I feel the same as Shaneystar. Christmas does loose some of the magic when your children grow up. We used to spend most Christmases with my parents even though we lived a fair distance away (not as far as Germany) My daughter prefers to stay at home with her children, which is fine as I don't really think its fair bringing children out of their homes just as Father Christmas has arrived. Also when I was a kid, I always had a board game for Christmas and the TV was never on on Christmas Day. Things have just changed so much these days. Thats why I love the build up to Christmas at work.
What a lovely story shaney. My Mum would have reacted exactly the same bless her!
I know what you mean about losing your Dad tradey. I lost my Dad in '94 & Mum in '96 & things are never quite the same. But I'm sure they would want us to be happy, so try to think of the good times - she says eyes welling up!
That was a lovely story Shaneystar. It reminded me of a few years ago at work, One of the little girls granddad was to be our Father Christmas. We sneaked him in the back door and he got changed ready to visit the children. We rang the bells and said that Santa had arrived. This little girl went up to get her present when her name was called and Santa asked her what she would like for Christmas. We usually invite the mums and Nan's etc to come in to watch this. When it was all over, she said to her nan "That's a shame granddad missed that!". She didn't recognise his voice. Sweet!
I agree with you loocfox,this year our daughter and her partner will be in Singapore on Christmas day but we will never-the-less enjoy the festive time in a different way --it will be less noisy!--- It is also her birthday two days before christmas so when she was very small the magic of christmas was of special significance for us all,saying that though,she is nearly 34 and still behaves like a big kid at christmas !!Also as you rightly point out,parents are no longer with us,so in many ways it is a time for reflection on christmas's past.
Let us wish for a happy and peaceful christmas however we choose to celebrate it ,and for my part,I look forward one day to sharing it with grand children who I am sure make christmas special for families everywhere.