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Just had a read of the case law. not sure if such applies here. no formal agreement as such has ever been made between us and next door, there is absolutely nothing in the deeds or land registry entry regarding access anywhere via anyone elses land.
the thing is, when the houses were built, they were simple three bedroom semis, with a driveway between each pair. its only since then people have made additions on the side of the house, using the driveway, that parts of each house have almost touched parts of the next door.
the lease actually says no buildings shall be put on the land without permission of the leaseholder, but i have no idea whether they asked permission or not.
i suspect very few people on this street have actually done so, looking at the blots on the landscape some folks have added.
that aside, this 'agreement' has only ever been one of those, its ok we dont mind you walking over our drive to get to your garden. the meter never came into it actually, because as in the previous post, we had never even noticed it. we have no gates or fences on the drive, so in the past the meter readers simply came over the drive and got into the meter without asking.
what slightly complicates it so far as understanding of whose land is whose, is that there is a little wall, about 6 inches high between the drives, and it could be argued that 'I walked on the wall, i thought it was theirs'. in fact, we had to go to the deeds to establish whose little wall it actually was. and its ours, so next door have absolutely no land at all between their meter and our drive.
i am going to have to have a serious discussion with them about it, as opposed to just mentioning it in passing, because i dont think anyone else has picked up on this at all.