How should i ask him not do this.....!

[Lorzy Lor]

Hey! This is quite embarasing, but i have no idea how to adress this the man! So, i have noticed that my hubby has been 'sorting himself out' in the night/mornings (i have no problem with this) however, i do have a problem with him not using the duvet cover and not a tissue.... ewwww!

How should i address this with out causing an argument? Was thinking of saying something like this....
'sweets, erm, i've put some tissues in your bed side table, so when your having a play could you use them instead of the sheets please?'

Any advice? Much appreciated!

:)

[sn�gs]

Better than using the curtains...

Seriously... just tell him straight... anyone with even an iota of sense knows its not on...

...or tell him he can wash the damn duvet cover himself from now on...

;-)

[Velvetee]

At least he doesn't do it into your clothing, like mine does!

[sn�gs]

^ nice! :-(

[20SilkCut]

....and how do you feel about that Velvetee....???

lol at snags...re. the curtains, - you got in there before me!!!

[sn�gs]

I did not! It wasn't me... honest...

[CrazyCathy]

Get single duvets and put his in a dustbin bag!

You just have to do straight talking - can't do much else.

[Velvetee]

Well I think it's a bit odd and can be annoying when I can't find the top I'm looking for, only to find it crumpled and rigid in a corner. I just wish he'd put them in the wash.

[sn�gs]

velvetee... why doesn't he use his own clothing? or is using yours all part of the - ahem - excitement?

[Velvetee]

Why don't you just tell him Lorzy to stop using the duvet. You're in relationship, so should be able to freely discuss anything.

[paraffin]

How about opening your mouth for him?

[sqad617]

Try..."you dirty filthy pig,use tissues if you have to"

[Velvetee]

He uses his own underpants sometimes Snags, but yes, I think my clothing adds to the excitement. Guess I should be flattered he's thinking about me and not someone else.

[20SilkCut]

i guess its a kind of a compliment to Velvetee....using her clothes...
at least he is thinking of her...rather than looking a pic in a mag or summat.....

[B00]

Velvetee that is gross and revolting, lol- i'd go bloody balisatic if that happened to any of my clothes.

As for Lorzy- that's equally gross, a stiff duvet cover <shudder>. Why don't you feign ignorance and say something like, as you're yet again stripping the bed....."what is it with this duvet? It keeps going hard in places!" (double entrendres abound there!) and see his face. It might shame him into using tissues or at the very least toilet roll.

God men are gross- lol.

[sqad617]

velvettee.....how do you know he is thinking of you?

[CrazyCathy]

I just read this out to hubby who said

I never thought of doing that...... grrrrrrrrrrhhh

[PatriciaH]

lol i can see this post going well over the 100 postings ..

[sn�gs]

^ lol... CB men all over the world are now thinking the same...

[CrazyCathy]

Bil just said

"and your point is?"

[Velvetee]

Well Squad, he say's he's thinking about me and always pestering me for a bunk up, but as I've said before, I'm right off sex, what with being over 6 months pregnant.

I wouldn't be too happy about the duvet, as it's not something that's easy to remove, wash and dry on a daily basis. I can't say I'm too bothered about my tops or knickers, they are small, inexpensive items, which can be washed easily. I'd rather he do that, than be out chasing women.