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ok, Nauhty Naughty......but now what????
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So you look through your partners phone (naughty naughty) and find a text saying "It's ok. I took her for a long walk earlier, let me know when you're next going xx".
This is from a person whom you partner had a BIG crush on for years, eventually slept together, and then stopped talking.
Out of the blue, after your relationship had started they get back in touch and have very cheeky, flirty texts back and forth for some time. You found out and said it had to stop, and as far as you were aware it had. 2years later it seems they have met up at least once walking the dogs together in the woods quite far from both their homes.
What would you do?
This is from a person whom you partner had a BIG crush on for years, eventually slept together, and then stopped talking.
Out of the blue, after your relationship had started they get back in touch and have very cheeky, flirty texts back and forth for some time. You found out and said it had to stop, and as far as you were aware it had. 2years later it seems they have met up at least once walking the dogs together in the woods quite far from both their homes.
What would you do?
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Not have looked through their texts in the first place.
But since you've already done that you're first decision is whether to admit it or not. Personally I don't think I'd want to show myself in that light so would concentrate on what can be done to improve the relationship between me and my partner so they didn't feel the need to meet up with old flames. But I can understand some wanting a blazing row instead.
In fairness it may not be more than a chat but obviously it isn't on to be doing this behind your back.
Difficult. I think I'd play it softly softly until there is more than a snooped at text to go on.
But since you've already done that you're first decision is whether to admit it or not. Personally I don't think I'd want to show myself in that light so would concentrate on what can be done to improve the relationship between me and my partner so they didn't feel the need to meet up with old flames. But I can understand some wanting a blazing row instead.
In fairness it may not be more than a chat but obviously it isn't on to be doing this behind your back.
Difficult. I think I'd play it softly softly until there is more than a snooped at text to go on.
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