Lol at frankie, sure I don't have to tell you but find out from your vets how soon they will do the chop - and get him down there - the last thing your partner needs is for him to start spraying!!
Ikea sell sticky rollers dirt cheap which take the cat hair from clothes - I keep one in the car, one in the office and one by the front door - just in case.
Hard as it may be you will need to make ground rules and stick to them - like not cats on the kitchen worktops or the dining table - they are my only rules but i do adhere to them - otherwise good luck and we look forward to the updates!!