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I agree with both of these different opinions. yes - fairly easy to set a trap, although not so certain it will be her that it traps. there are no end of cats up that end of our road, many of which are out at night. there are two cats next door to us that are semi wild and are out all of the time. they are scavengers and will go after anything that remotely resembles food. and yes, if we do get her home, she may well do exactly the same thing. I have looked at the houses on google earth, and cannot see at all how she cannot get back over all of the gardens, except for the fact that I don't think that's how she got there in the first place, I think she went through the wood. I know that, as we have not had her for that long, she may well not think our house is hers, we think she has been able to find shelter under a wooden deck in the house next door to where she has been eating. they did try not putting food out for a few nights, and she didn't appear to come around, but then suddenly appeared again, bedraggled and soaking wet and starving hungry. but in those few days when no food was left out for her, she still didn't return back here. no-one else on the street, to our knowledge, has been feeding her as she did appear to the neighbour that she was very hungry. i know she was looked after and loved where she lived before so don't know really why she is so afraid of people. she just is. but at the same time, she really appeared to like her home comforts, sleeping on the bed etc, wanting to get close to us, when she wanted to. for what the rspca charge for traps, this is going to be our next move and see what happens. i feel a bit bad for the neighbour, they have a cat and like cats, but its not reasonable to expect them to be looking out for her all the time when she's not their cat. they haven't complained though, in fact are being as helpful as they can.