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I Need Some Advice About My Relationship With A Woman. I Am 16 (She's 17). And We Both Go To The Same School. (Please Read)
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I'm a handsome man (i am been told that by both women and men i've met). I've blonde hair, i'm slim and i act gentle and old fashioned. I have sidepart haircut, this detail might convince you that i am old fashioned.
Only recently i met this girl that i find extremely attractive and cute (none of my buddies agree with me, which means that she is that special attractive-type for me). She seems shy and she never made eye-contact with me. That made me think that she doesn't find me attractive or whatever. Then once, when our eyes finally met she quickly turned away and got very uncomfortable which gave me some confidence to talk to her. I've actually never had problem talking to girls before her, only she make me very insecure.
SIDEQUESTION: She is has small boobs, which i don't mind at all, but maybe it makes her feel insecure? What do you think?
Then one day, i worked up courage and talked to her (the most embarrassing conversation i've ever had). She was blushing and her voice got this nervous pitch and mine too. I think that i was blushing too.
Anyway, soon after that i went up to her and asked if she had free time after school to have a chat about school subjects. She agreed and we had a nice chat for about an hour. She was playing with her hair and she was moving her fingers nervously (sorry i don't know how to express that in english). She didn't seem to blush while we were chatting. I maintained cool the whole time, stared her into eyes and smoothly made our legs touch (she didn't back from that).
However, since i was only asking about school subjects and didn't ask too much about her (so stupid) she seemed to think that i wanted see her as a friend. Our chat ended when she let me know she was in hurry. (she told me that before, when i asked her for a chat). I was sending her out of the school building but i couldn't go outside with her because i had some business to finish. During the time we were going down the stairs and towards the exit, she was very quiet and didn't make eye-contact. This made me feel cold, as if she didn't like me.
*The reason because i feel insecure is that since i'm handsome man a lot of women who i don't feel attraction towards have told me their feelings and i have had to turn them down. Maybe she (the girl) just doesn't find me attractive and in that case i wouldn't want to make her feel uncomfortable if i tried to flirt with her. The reason why she might not find me attractive is that i have a 1mm gap between my front teeth. I have learned to deal with it but this situation has brought up that problem in my life. What do you think? Would she care about that feature?
Please read this and tell me what do you honestly think. If you think that we might have a chance together please suggest me what to do. If you think that i have misled her or given her wrong hints or scared her off, please tell me how could i fix it.
Should i tell her my feelings straight or let it hatch as we have further chats and go out together?
I am really crazy about her and i don't want to mess it up. She is a year older then me.
Excuse me for all of the english mistakes i might have made typing this.
I'm a handsome man (i am been told that by both women and men i've met). I've blonde hair, i'm slim and i act gentle and old fashioned. I have sidepart haircut, this detail might convince you that i am old fashioned.
Only recently i met this girl that i find extremely attractive and cute (none of my buddies agree with me, which means that she is that special attractive-type for me). She seems shy and she never made eye-contact with me. That made me think that she doesn't find me attractive or whatever. Then once, when our eyes finally met she quickly turned away and got very uncomfortable which gave me some confidence to talk to her. I've actually never had problem talking to girls before her, only she make me very insecure.
SIDEQUESTION: She is has small boobs, which i don't mind at all, but maybe it makes her feel insecure? What do you think?
Then one day, i worked up courage and talked to her (the most embarrassing conversation i've ever had). She was blushing and her voice got this nervous pitch and mine too. I think that i was blushing too.
Anyway, soon after that i went up to her and asked if she had free time after school to have a chat about school subjects. She agreed and we had a nice chat for about an hour. She was playing with her hair and she was moving her fingers nervously (sorry i don't know how to express that in english). She didn't seem to blush while we were chatting. I maintained cool the whole time, stared her into eyes and smoothly made our legs touch (she didn't back from that).
However, since i was only asking about school subjects and didn't ask too much about her (so stupid) she seemed to think that i wanted see her as a friend. Our chat ended when she let me know she was in hurry. (she told me that before, when i asked her for a chat). I was sending her out of the school building but i couldn't go outside with her because i had some business to finish. During the time we were going down the stairs and towards the exit, she was very quiet and didn't make eye-contact. This made me feel cold, as if she didn't like me.
*The reason because i feel insecure is that since i'm handsome man a lot of women who i don't feel attraction towards have told me their feelings and i have had to turn them down. Maybe she (the girl) just doesn't find me attractive and in that case i wouldn't want to make her feel uncomfortable if i tried to flirt with her. The reason why she might not find me attractive is that i have a 1mm gap between my front teeth. I have learned to deal with it but this situation has brought up that problem in my life. What do you think? Would she care about that feature?
Please read this and tell me what do you honestly think. If you think that we might have a chance together please suggest me what to do. If you think that i have misled her or given her wrong hints or scared her off, please tell me how could i fix it.
Should i tell her my feelings straight or let it hatch as we have further chats and go out together?
I am really crazy about her and i don't want to mess it up. She is a year older then me.
Excuse me for all of the english mistakes i might have made typing this.
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Stop dwelling on how handsome you believe yourself to be....or the minimal gap in your teeth.
Stop second-guessing what she may, or may not, be thinking.
Talk to her more often and see how it goes.
You have not interacted with her for anywhere near a sufficient amount of time to try to work out how either of you really feels about the other.
Stop second-guessing what she may, or may not, be thinking.
Talk to her more often and see how it goes.
You have not interacted with her for anywhere near a sufficient amount of time to try to work out how either of you really feels about the other.
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