Had Some Very Sad News This Evening

Ric.ror | 23:33 Fri 25th Mar 2016 | ChatterBank

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Sometimes life just doesn't seem fair

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The man upstairs works in very strange ways Ric.ror, the child must have been one of his favorite's, it's very hard for the Mother who has carried the child for the duration only to hear the sad news, I don't know you but I feel for you as many of us on here do, condolences to the parents.

13:28 Sat 26th Mar 2016

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Bathsheba

Sorry to read this, Ric. :(

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x x x x

-SharonA-

Me too. Life is unfair at the best of times.

Baths, what's with your name??

naomi24

No question - life isn't fair.

Bathsheba

Just tryin it out Sha,......fancied a change....sorry Ric.ror to hijack your thread,..I'll start a new one.

x x x

-SharonA-

Yeah, sorry ric ror. Do you want to share?

Mamyalynne

Life sure does throw some awful things at you , take care. x

Mamyalynne

I hope you have someone to talk to Ric ror.

Caran

Ric.ror do you need to talk about something sensible. I will listen.

Ric.ror

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Thanks for your kind thoughts
The baby - due in October has left us

waterboatman

So sorry to see that ric. sympathy and condolences to you all. xxx

ummmm

:-(

Sorry to read that, Ric, it's very hard to deal with x

Ric.ror

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It's the sense that we will never know this child
We did not even know if the baby was a girl or a boy - yet I can't help feeling there will always be a little piece of the family missing
I even bought some new sleep suits for the baby on Thursday because they (the parents) had given them all away

waterboatman

The child will be forever in your heart ric. A sad loss non the less. xxx

ummmm

Do they have other children? Not that makes a difference to the pain they'll be feeling, or you, but it can help keep a routine.

I've lost 3 babies :-(

Ric.ror

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Yes they have two others
I think the thought of telling the oldest (4) is another worry too
My heart really goes out to you ummm and all women in your position. I used to be of the opinion 'oh you'll get over it' but when I had my babies (30 years ago) I soon realised it was probably something a mother will never get over

ummmm

You do get over it except the odd time when reading posts like this; I got emotional on your behalf because I know how you must be feeling xx

waterboatman

I understand how both of you are feeling. Such love is unconditional and never leaves you. xxx

Strawberry5

Sorry to hear your news, Ric.ror.

Mamyalynne

Very sad, special thoughts to all. x