For Sqad Or Any Med Professional Mainly - Ectopic Pregnanct Issue
When i was about 24 (1994-5) I had an ectopic pregnancy.
I also have PCOS so it was a surprise.
I was in pain & had to go to hospital i think around 7-8 weeks
The docs did a D&C, then did a scan to check it was all gone - but i was still pregnant!
The scan showed a normal heartbeat in the uterus on the monitor!
The nurse was smiling & seemed to assume i was happy - it seemed like she hadn't checked why i was having the scan or something??
I was quite unnerved by her reaction, i didn't say anything to her.
So an abortion was scheduled for a date in the future & i went home.
I'm assuming the foetus didn't survive very long after that scan, as i know a D&C would be a traumatic procedure for it, & you can't move a foetus & replant it elsewhere, so it must have either been very firmly implanted in the first place & was only moved near the end of the D&C??
Or it somehow miraculously did implant??
Or it just survived long enough for the scan??
It was all a bit confusing, & when i went to have it removed, they didn't seem to know the situation either, & treated me like all the other women getting abortions.
1 or 2 nurses probably shouldn't have been on that ward, you could feel their disdain for the women.
I remember telling the surgeon, just before they knocked me out, that if the foetus is still there & ok, I don't want to keep it, & he just sort of smiled & said ok & just carried on what he was doing.
Looking back, it should have been clear to them that I didn't quite know what the plan was or what had happened to the foetus.
i assumed they were going to check to see if the foetus was OK first, & if not, they'd remove it, but if it was ok, they'd just send me home to carry on with the pregnancy!
I didn't realise i was in a specific proper abortion ward/clinic & they weren't checking anything, just doing the procedure, same as all the others.
That surgeon & other around must have wondered why I said that to him?
Even at that point, I still didn't know properly what was going on.
Is it possible for me to get more details of this from the hospital - like proper info - surely if it was so unusual, there'd be notes, right?
Unless someone thought they'd messed up the D&C so were vague??
I'd really like to know, because it seems an ectopic foetus surviving a D&C is considered basically impossible - so why was hardly anything said about it to me, it was all very perfunctory.
There was no sense of them being amazed.
Unless this is actually quite common & the impossible part is of it surviving for any length of time.
I felt very ill at home, waiting for the abortion, couldn't eat, could only eat, pineapple & jelly sweets.
I'd really like to know what happened - Ive downloaded my med history from my GP but its really terrible, very vague, hardly any info - and theres no record of the ectopic pregnancy, the D&D, the abortion etc - none of it!
Theres nothing there from before about 1995 - just allergies & immunisations.
GP notes were paper then - so were these notes just never copied over?
Any ideas what to do?
Or does anyone know of any similar cases where I get an idea of what likely happened to me?
I've googled but i'm not really sure what to look for, as i don't really know what happened
Thanks for any help
:)