FAO married ladies

[hammerman]

Ladies....of any age, if you knew you could get away with it and you really fancied a bloke, would you ever considder having a no strings affair with a married man....just for the excitement and thrill of it all.

[girlygirl]

Not with a married man to be honest - or one with kids.

[zara 4]

Not if you've got morals,,,no!!

[joby1]

I had the opportunity a couple of years ago, but declined out of loyalty to my hubby, after all, isn't that the point of getting married, commitment to each other? Bit of harmless flirting, Fine btw!!

[hammerman]

Maybe....but affairs happen all the time...just wondered what the girlies opinions were on this

[CheekyChops]

Wouldn't bother me too much, it's his problem he's married, not mine! Having said that, I would probably not do it if I knew his wife and I would probably get fed up of being a 'bit on the side' eventually.

[alijangra]

The fact someone is married would not add any excitement for me, so no.

[dancealot13]

It's not the fear of getting caught that would worry me. It's the feeling of guilt. I get so guilty, even if I flirt. So I know if I had an affair with any man, that the guilt would just eat me up.

[Frankie Babe]

God no. Too much self respect thanks. What kind of bloke has one woman waiting at home whilst playing the field? My friends and I have all had married guys trying to chat us up & they all use a variation of the same "my wife doesn't understand me" lines, it's like they all read from the same script. They're either @rseholes or too spineless to do the right thing. Either way, not fellas I'd want to spend time with. Not only that but there's always the risk of hurting an innocent wife and/or children.

[laurence2]

To all the above post.

Its so nice to see so many loyal women, its a shame i can't say the same about a majority of men.

Ps, where not all cheaters by the way

[whiskeysheri]

I couldn't get into anything with a married man. What comes around, goes around.

Treat people as you like to be treated. I wouldn't want anyone sleeping with my husband (if I had one) x

[MangoPete]

This came up on "This Morning" TV show they did a secret ballot of women in the office at the studio and it was found that 52% had had affairs. The counsellor , a woman, on the show said women are just as likely to have affairs as men but they are far cleverer and do not get found out.
Their words not mine.
Then again if either sex wants more than one partner why be in a one to one relationship anyway?

In France it is almost expected for the middle class especially to have "liasons" as it is in places like Mexico.
In Maasai culture if the husband goes away to say work for a while, it is expected that his wife can enjoy sex with his best man.
In some clans it is expected that a male visitor when invited to a home will sleep with the wife . Women often ask their husbands to invite their favourites round.The wives favourites not the husbands.

[Blyss]

in a word ,, NO

[mimififi]

no. Also, I couldn't have that kind of a relationship with someone and feel 'no strings'. I give too much of myself and would end up with a huge deficit, not to mention a broken marriage, and at best a hardened heart, and at worst a hollow inside.

Sorry, but give me my one man any day and leave all the others for their wives.

[Goodsoulette]

Sawyer from lost... hes married... I would havr an affair with him.

[boobesque]

no, i couldnt do it without feeling guilty plus i love my hubby waaaaaaay too much to do it to him and get more than enough thrill and excitement from him to ever do it regardless wether or not i could get away with it

[sense4all]

Where did I put me 'rabbit pot?' .....

only kidding, if they were cheating on their wives it speaks volumes about their own character don't you think? Not for me either!

[Farmer Giles]

It's interesting to see ladies' answers to this. I posted a question a while ago asking whether I should confront a friend of mine who's having an affair with a mate of her hubby's. Everyone told me to mind my own business but I personally think it's wrong of her. Marriage vows, respect to her husband, etc