Guys & Girls, I need a little help please � What do I say??!!

[sinnerman]

Due to the nature of my question, I'm sure you'll all understand that I will be using a little bit coding, however I do promise it won't be a come back tour of the Krypton factor!!!

So, the story goes like this:

I've known this girl for around 6 years. We get on great personality wise, fancy the hell out of each other, but never got together because of other relationships etc. so always ended up staying just friends.

About 2 weeks ago we were talking on the phone for the first time in months, and it became very apparent that we were both, finally, single together at the same time (and had both been for around 5 months or so) � Result!!

Anyway, we finally wet out for our first ever real date about 10 days ago and I have to say the last 10 days have been both amazing and wonderful � and given time, I could totally fall for this one!!

However, last night, after a great meal and drinks, she invited me to stay back at hers. The whole night was a success and everything was going swimmingly until when in the passionate throws of romance I decided to "migrate south for winter" (told you it wouldn't be too cryptic!!) � Well next thing I knew I was starring face to face with a full scale replica of the Amazon rain forest!!!!!
Obviously by that point I was a little committed and decided; "in for a penny ���.."
However in reality, the whole Au Natural look does not float my boat!!

So, how do I tell her? As everything else is going great and I really don't want to lose her, or push her away!!

(She is off to Australia or 3 weeks on Wednesday, and I just wondered if she's going growing it first in order to get it waxed before she goes � is that how it works??!!)

Thanks a bundle for all your help & thoughts!!

[yoshimoto]

Hey Sinnerman - you rock!!
I have no idea on the answer to your dilema, but i just wanted to say i love your terminologies (fly south for winter etc) ....wonderful.
Are you a cockney by any chance? - I cant see a norhterner talking like that so naturally! (no offence to northeners, but ******* do have that certain something extra in their personalities!!)

Maybe, if this is what your personality is like you could even drop the whole thing into a conversation at somepoint... sell her the idea of shaving - you know, just like a lb of apples & pears!!!!

Good luck son!!

[cascarelli]

If you know someone well enough to sleep with them then I'd assume you'd know them well enough to be able to talk to them as well?

Maybe she keeps it that way because thats how she likes it?

[raysparx1]

Just suggest you do a bit of bush trimming on each other,then you can get stuck into the "old bush tucker challenge" you can dine on the little man rowing the boat without having to nip to the dentists for a haircut, I love visiting the south pole,but you really don't need a big anorak on while you are there, god luck me ole china

[Agent_Smith]

when you were down there did you pretend you was sadamm hussain when he was captured and he had a really big beard?

[unruliejulie]

Just bear in mind that there might be a few flaws with your good self sinnerman but she is just too polite to say at this early stage in your relationship. It's something you could mention when you have got to know one another better.

I would be most embarrasssed if something was said to me like that to be honest and i think it's not something you should mention until you have spent a little more time together in that way. And anyway, if she is so great in every other way, surely this is a little something that can be overlooked, for now at least !
Maybe if she has been on her own for a little while, she's not been too worried about this sort of thing and perhaps wasn't expecting things to get as intimate as they did which is why she didn't sort it out. I also think you could be right with the waxing thing.(never done it myself though being too much of a wimp) If she's gonna be wearing a swimsuit i think she will more than likely get it tidy for that!

[snagged]

Well said 'cascarelli'... at the end of the day its only hair... if that's the only thing you have a problem with... get over it!

[unruliejulie]

sinnerman meant to say as well, good luck with it because it sounds like it could be a great thing for you both!

[-Zorro-]

get your lawn mower out

[boink]

I think the bouffant looks coming back, so you might have to get used to it, but i agree with cascarelli, why dont u just mention it nest time your in the south, maybe just say "would you ever consider ....blah blah." Im sure she wouldnt be offended by that.


LMAO @ agent_smith though

[boink]

sorry however appropriate the "nest" punn was, it was unintentional, a typing error

[unruliejulie]

very embarrassed though Boink!
I thinks its a very personal thing. It is after all a criticism of her grooming and after all, you wouldn't meet up with a girl and say " Your make-ups a bit heavy love" or " you have BO, sort it out" would you? To me its on a par with that sort of thing. When you have been with someone longer than one night, then maybe you can get away with it, but certainly not yet!

[Eve]

Depends how much is there as if i was waxing i'd trim it right down first, waxing a big bush...oooooh the pain!

How about as a lovely treat you get her a pre-break pmpering voucher for a beauty salon to INCLUDE a bikini wax, manicure and pedicare and sunbed or something like that, lots of places have packages.

It could be a lovely treat for her, and for you and if she likes it it's like to stay that way....cunning huh ;)

[sinnerman]

Hi guys & girls,

Thanks to you all for all your help and comments (esp. unruliejulie and Jenna1978)

Unruliejulie: I totally get what your saying and do appreciate it all - i would probably be a little embarased myself if she said something like that to me.

Jenna 1978: I lov e your way of thinking and if nothing else, it might just get me in the good books!!!

And yes Yoshimoto - i am a cockney sparra, from Fulham - Soth West London!!

[unruliejulie]

sinnerman, i just wanted you to see it from a womans point of view. I would die of embarrassment and find it a big criticism.

I have to say, you sound like a lovely thoughtful bloke and i do hope it all goes well for you, dont let something so trivial risk spoiling it! Just give it a bit of time before you go wading in with your mach 3 . All the best X :-)

[sinnerman]

aawa, thanks unruliejulie!!

Not sure what makes me sound so lovelly though!! - Afterall, i'd be pretty ****** off if i thought she was banding our sexual stuff all over the internet!!!!!!!

Hopefully things will go well though - no matter what her faults are - they nowhere near compare to mine!! - I'm not letting her go - not for a second!!

xxx

[unruliejulie]

well i think you sound very lovely because despite your hang up about the rain forest, you seem to have very real feelings for her and sound very caring.
Some men wouldnt think twice of saying what they thought and then ruining things. You care enough to get some advice, and no-one knows you on here so theres no problem. Just think, if you hadnt have asked, you may have gone and put your size 10s straight in it!
Trust me, if i say you sound lovely, then you are!!! lol
keep us informed! x

[Matheous]

In a phrase: your not 'scared of the beard'?? Are you?

[luckyeight]

Oh sure, tell her you want her to look like a pre-pubescent child because that would turn you on rather than her looking like an adult woman. Mind if I ask if you wax your back crack n sack? Sure a hairy arse really gets her going....
Whilst I'm the subject I'm sure you'd rather she didn't have a clitoris as well - so much hassle to find and doesn't do anything for you?