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The friends of the group who are women and know her pretty well, say that her texts are genuine and that she is totally wrapped up in me etc etc.
Also now that she is just about to turn 28 she has grown out of all that, and what she really wants now is to settle down, and by the looks of it with me.
Also they say that I�m only this worried because I want her and us so badly.
But obviously, my mind is now racing!!
I�m 30, been in 2 serious relationships in the past � and both ended up cheating on me.
This is the girl I want for life, and I really don�t want to lose her. I also do trust her, her feelings and what she is saying. So am I just being paranoid for no reason??!!
If so, what should I do about it??!! (Other than get new friends!!)
(Also the time difference really doesn�t help things!!)
I used to do a lot of travelling around the globe with my job and then lads holidays. Ex girlfriends used to say that I was harder for the person left behind to get on with normal life, than it was for the one who is away or on holiday. I never used to believe it.
- May I now take this opportunity to apologise to all my ex-girlfriends; I never thought I�d here myself say this but they were right � it is harder being the one at home!!