Every thought of just effing off???

[Drisgirl]

Have things ever got to you in your life that you thought -eff this i'm going and you can all get on with it?


I'm not talking suicide here just taking a hiatus and not telling anyone and letting them all bicker between themselves or be introverted,being entirely really selfish and basically stop being the convenient whipping girl.

In other words I have had enough -if I see another ******* eggshell I will die.........................

Ever felt like it -ot have you done it?

I so am wanting to do it -just take of for a few days (wouldnt spoil my Mum and Dads 50th -but I would id if it wasnt next weekend)

I am not attention seeking -I am drained ,drained drained its been tough.

Anyone ever just escaped?

[bananie]

if i was going to go and not tell anyone, I wouldn't post it on here that I was going. A bit of a pointless exercise I would imagine.

[Louisa 69]

She's not saying that banine she is asking if you've ever thought about just going off.

Hey Dris i guess we can all feel like that at times, life can sometimes get you down and all you want to do is run for the hills lol. I know i have many times.

Keep strong hun.

[pastafreak]

yes...when i was married it was a constant wish of mine to just disappear........"MrsX was last seen when she went out for a pint of milk......." just like that.

[jojojojoanne]

i have never 'effed' off on my own no

hope your ok, you''ll probably be ok tomorrow,try to drain what is draining you!

good luck xx

[bananie]

yes, a few people I know have escaped, Reggie Perrin did it and John Darwin. Archie Buchanan from River City has just done it. None of them solved their problems by disappearing. Best to sort things out first and then take a holiday.

[Drisgirl]

Thanks everyone -think you all got it bar bananie - can u get a few days to the Reef?That would be ace.

I just simlpy want to get away from it all -ive had it.

Typos the lot -couldnt care less.

Im away to kip and i'll see how I feel in the morning -and banaie you dont know me -no-one really does so dont worry the Polis wont be chapping on your door -lol

[bananie]

don't presume to know you, am just saying what I think, which is what I thought the whole point of posting a question on here was all about - to get other people's perspective on things? not a lot of people ever solved any problems by disappearing. that's all. taking a holiday, yes, but running away is always a bad thing.

[Drisgirl]

Tal vez dos dais -serios..
Que auerpuerto?
Just EMail -lol



Banaie -sorry -you dont know me and i'm sorry if I was abrubt -lets leave it at that it was my fault.

[Drisgirl]

O Man -that has just decided it for me-that was the first single that anyone bought- me for babysitting as well -I love that song.

[netibiza]

Get up and go whilst you can, as long as you have no children to upset. It'll do you the power of good. I did it a couple of times and the 2nd time I left England and never went back! I am not suggesting that you do that of course.

[cruella]

Dris,
You are going through a rough time just now? Go with the flow, do your own thing and let them all get on with it.
Not easy to do, but take time out for yourself and give yourself some pampering.
Once you get the Anniversary out of the way, sit down and take stock of your life or whatever bothers you, then do what you want to do.
Life is not a rehearsal.
It may be time to think of yourself for once instead of all around you.
Take care.

[Drisgirl]

Thanks cruella -thats precisely what I have decided to do -I woke this morning and felt better for telling 2 of them at least (well its a start) just what I thought and how I felt.

I didnt phone -got a lovely call from one of my old colleagues (she lives in West Ferry) and had a good old yap.

I waited on the Blair 2 (lol) to phone first and I was just fine with them not over the top -just I suppose dryish.

You are - as usual-100% right -you can read me like a book and I am now going to have time to myself -learn to say no and when I want a night to myself without any hassle then that is precisely what I am gonna do.

Last night was just verging on taking a rise and i just let them have it.For the others who want to retreat then I am just gonna let them -they know I'm here.

Thanks hun -hope things are getting better for you -will EMail shortly -just watch out for it winging its way to you -i'd be quicker just delivering it -lol

Youre a wee honey -thanks for taking the time out for me when you dont have your own problems to seek xxx

[tiggerblue10]

Dris - yes I have.

Randy Crawford takes the words right out of mouth. I want this as my epitaph:-

ONE DAY I'LL FLY AWAY!