Morning lady-janine, I hope all is well with you :)
Yeah, I often wonder about that, my owner father wasn't much of a father to me and my brother. Her father does everything for his step daughter, she wants for nothing. We hear from her father only when he wants something (usually it's to update his SATNAV). He is coming by this morning to drop off cards and presents (at his convenience, not ours). He knows that when he comes at around 10:30/11:00 that my OH will be with the carers and he won't see her. I've just thought actually, we never bought them a card or present this year, oh well.