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Many thanks for the answers thus far , to answer some of the points raised , one family member is elderly and recently widowed , she does not need the stress of fighting "San". Other family members are under 18 , and as i dont live with them anymore , i dont believe it would help our relationship to take money off them.
I have been through the complete complaints procedure with Bank "Wide" , and they have offered minimal compensation, which i will take to redress the balance . I just think that bank "san" can make as many mistakes as they like because they will always be able to get there money back , especially as the Banking Ombudsman always supports the bank over the single working man . If there was a way of ensuring that bank "San" do not pursue the recipients then that would be useful. It would not be so bad , but the bank "San" have not told the truth from the outset of this , and like all banking farces , they can get away with it. Thanks again