Ignoring Family Members....

[nailit]

Have you got any family members that you dont speak to?
Why not?
How do you deal with it at get togethers?
How would you change it?
WOULD you change it?
Thanks.

[FrogNog]

Yes I do.
Because she's a low down cur.
We try not to get together.
Give her a personality transplant
Nope. She can stay as far away from me as possible please.

[Psybbo]

Some that I have to
Too late to change it
Tried but failrd

[nailit]

hey psybo, sent you an email (it was you wasnt it?....otherwise ive sent some stalker my genuine email address)

[Psybbo]

I've replied x

[Tilly2]

No, I haven't but I have got some family members who don't speak to each other. It's quite difficult being a go-between sometimes.

[nailit]

Reason I ask, my niece (and her family) cut of her father. Then he died suddenly. tears all round of what could have been etc. Seen other similar cases. All seems a bit sad to me. Life to short for grudges (most of them imagined in my experience)

[Butterbun]

No, none at all
Because we all get on great
Fabulously, great times
Wouldn't want to
Nooo
You're welcome

[pastafreak]

No...I couldn't imagine anything that would cause that sort of situation. Even when I had a bad/awkward time with my elder sister many years ago...I/we still communicated.
Maybe I'm one of the lucky ones.

[Butterbun]

Nailit, I think after someone dies, the ones left start to feel guilty.

[nailit]

Sorry guys, going off topic a bit here.
Pysibbo, thanks for email, got it in my main email addy. Thanks.

[nailit]

Butterbun, but why wait untill someone dies? If theres guilt there, then better to deal with it at source?

[anneasquith]

no point saying sorry to a corpse !!

[Brinjal]

Yes,
We don't get together,
Wouldn't change it as he is a crook that even
will do his own family down.

[Butterbun]

They only start feeling guilty after the death because then, it is too late and they realise this. They don't feel any guilt while all are still alive.

[Peter Pedant]

In press - obit of David Greenglass who turned in Ethel Kroger who got the electric chair for spying - 1953 I think
She was his sister

I loved my wife more he said later - who would have been implicated if he had told the truth. SO he didnt and Ethel fried....

I dont really think I can say more than that

[nailit]

PP, the day I can make sense of your posts will be the day that hell freezes over.

[sherrardk]

My FIL did recently and none of us (including himself) had spoken to him for nearly six years (and he hadn't tried to speak to us either) - there's no guilt here.

[LyndaB]

Yes, she cheated us out of a lot of money. I don't get together with her - in fact we have walked past each other and not spoken. It can't be changed, what's done is done. I hope I live long enough to see her lose everything.

[queenofmean]

Yes
if you knew i'm sure you wouldn't either
we don't, can happily walk past each other in the street
I wouldn't
Not in a million,
Your Welcome :)