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ok - thanks Sqad and so because of her weight she is now suffering from all kinds, I don't know what to advise her, and of course she is an easygoing person herself.
Like I'm not throwing bouquets here. But I lugged a double bed downstairs - scrubbed and scrubbed a stain off, left a paste of soap and hosed it last night. It is dripping at the moment or nearly stopping dripping and so I will trail it upstairs to finish drying later in the day - and I lost nearly 3lbs weight. So it goes to move a bit more does help. I don't know know what to tell my cousin what she should do