I wasn't jumping on Dot in any sense of the word, I truly like her style as I hoped my lols and smiley would indicate. I just find the whole SR thing tedious, and that's where I came in, though also advocating a live and let live policy. Dot's repsonse gave the chance to highlight this and so I did. The mad/cofnused/hypocritical thing wasn't aimed at dot (I was thinking specifically of a user who has left) but when she asked, I answered honestly. Now and then users posts and behaviour are intriguing, and I guess today, Dots were intriguing to me, but I really don't waste much time pondering the motives of Abers, cos life is truly too short.
Dot, I am honestly and sincerely sorry if I caused you the slightest offence. It was merely intended as a bit of thinking aloud, but I shall fret no more, I assure you :o)