Most of us are employed as well, and don't have the opportunity to use the internet during our employment. I personally am employed in a worthwhile and demanding job, have a home to run, rescue animals and have several pets of my own, have a large garden and go to art classes and look after an elderly mother and well as supporting a child through university.
Constructive critiscm is OK if asked for, but as you say, you have not been on this site for very long, so perhaps have not learnt yet that we do have respect for each other. If occasionally we get a little lighthearted on some threads, such as this one, then so what!