good morning ed."keep your oar out " ?

[anneasquith]

ed, surely all replies should be treated on a similare basis in ab. over the last few weeks whenever i reply to a question " might i add similar to other replies " i am told to " keep my oar out " surely i have the same right as others to be involved in discussions, thanks

[ummmm]

By who? Where? I've never seen anyone telling you to 'keep your oar out'

[NazNomad]

Told to 'keep your oar out'' by whom?

[zzxxee]

its not nice to be told that, anyone should be welcome to post replies anne, do you have an example please so i can read it ?

[RATTER15]

Hey, thats the Ed's department, keep your oar out!! :-)

[anneasquith]

morning ratter >

[NazNomad]

Pixi, I think she has ... well, apart from Ratter. :-))

[McMouse]

It's to stop the rowing.....

[ummmm]

I was just going to say that...

[AB Editor]

Sorry, I am as confused as everyone else on this thread. I need a bit more information? Drop me an email if you feel your complaints might be best served privately: [email protected]

[anneasquith]

i will ed, but im am not going to use this question as a he said she said debate, i just feel all abers should be allowed to express their opinions as long as their posts are not offensive or break any ab rules.

[zzxxee]

fair enough anne, any concerns are between you and the ed i hope you get the answer you need to your question x.

[AB Editor]

Yes, I think we all agree Anne.

[vivandorron]

To the Ed who has taken this into his Court;
I say..."Good on yer Sport.

Ron.

[what..the?]

sorry to hear that anne

May I bring to the issue your avatar....well I know it is not right to judge people by there avatar but often when I see yours I feel, some what threatened...I have no idea why??? The pic's of a fit guy, I'm a girl but it for some strange it makes me think you one of these women who live in the gym and look down us us fatties....and that threatens me??? PMLS I have no idea why I feel like this, so sorry, but I thought my strange view might help, if others felt 'funny' about the avatar....feel free to ignore me or tell me to keep my oar out....because well...i'm just weird..

[anneasquith]

what the,,,,, lol im sorry you feel threatened by my avatar. i rather like him, do i spend all day in the gym, ? not likely, i will try and get my avatar changed when someone will assist me at home..anne

[what..the?]

i am soooooooo sorry you don't have to change it for me, feel bad now

[Dris]

Its me !!!
I say that to Anne when she is 'sticking her oar' in to stir it when I post.
Im not fussed -thought it was better saying that to her rather than reporting her or making an issue that she was hounding me.
Shall I just report her in future Ed ?

[Dris]

BTW -all I say is 'oar out' -the fact only Anne has noticed should speak volumes.Have to say I have said it perhaps 3 times and mentioned her name perhaps once so it was a case of the cap fitting...
Good to see everyone jumping to her defence though without knowing the full story - have to applaud you Anne and your sidekick on this thread..........hmmmm????
Make your own minds up 'readers'..............

[Dris]

O I so wished i had condensed it into one post as it look like I care when all I feel is pity.
The ones who recognised that it was to stop the 'rowing' were spot on.(McM and ummm)
The others who bought into the 'victim' act without even knowing the facts -what can I say..........apart from dont ever judge a book by its cover/theres two sides to every story -but then you all knew that didnt you ........well obviously you would.....or did you??
This shouldnt have been in Suggs btw -should have been a straight email to the Ed with examples -which havent been provided on here yet but you were all quick enough to jump to her defence on hearsay -o and Ron you looking for membership to the Gold club perchance -'Good on yer sport' - why ??