Solarjunkie, you are of course perfectly free to use English however you see fit, but we should all be clear that there is no reason to imagine distinguishing blonde/blond on gender grounds is upholding historic usage. The two earliest recorded uses of the word - both from the 1480s and both clearly referring to men - are...
a) "The rays of the sun make the hair of a man auburn or blonde."
b) "They array their hair like women and force it to be yellow and if they be black they make them blonde and auburn."
The original spelling in each case is blounde.)
Blond without an e appeared nowhere in English until another three centuries had passed and, even thereafter, it was not gender-specific. In The Mill on the Floss, George Eliot wrote, "If the blond girl were forsaken...", for example.
This is obviously a case where "Vive la diff�rence!" is an irrelevance here in Britain, but good luck to you in trying to maintain it! Cheers