I've gone for a Beige Blonde which seems to suit me well and was recommended by my hairdresser. My natural hair colour is actually very dark brown but that was a few years ago. I had it streaked lighter every few months until it got to the point where I could dye it all over blonde.
I've tried the golden blonde, which did not look right as it had a yellowy tinge which didn't suit my skin colouring and baby blonde which was fine but would not cover the grey so I've opted for Beige Blonde which look great!
Hope you find something that you're happy with fruitsalad.