i have 13 tattos and love all of them....but my 4 chinese tattoos are my favourite. my advice would be to look at the different fonts of writing first and decide which one you like before having any done (as you may end up with some more). second, if you look on google images, you will soon get the idea of what the symbol for family is (i will try to look for you too in a minute). and lastly....always go armed with the design you want to the tattoo parlour and NEVER have one done on the spur of the moment, or you will regret it.