Do I look ugly for a 16 year old boy? Please be honest!

[Richahern]

Someone called me ugly today. There are some photographs of me in the link below. Do I look ugly? I'm a 16 year old boy. Please be honest!

Here is the link:
www.rjaphotographs1993.piczo.com

Please be honest, thank you very much!

[bigfoot3000]

Confidence, the abillty to hold an intelligent conversation and the making them laugh is key.

[Kromovaracun]

Don't let anyone tell you you're 'ugly'.

Seriously, it's quite amazing how far your appearance can change in reflection to what your mind is like. Most genuinely attractive people I've met could just have easily have been quite easy to ignore if they hadn't carried themselves the way they did, and that's almost entirely mental or personality-related in nature. Equally, a lot of people don't seem that attractive until you hear them talk about something or notice a certain way that they think or an aspect of their body language.

For instance, it's virtually impossible for someone to look 'attractive' if they have their shoulders slumped and they're hunched over with their face pointed at the ground.

You can't really fake any of that though - if deep down you think yourself to be ugly, then to some degree it'll come out in the way you carry yourself. Believe me, I know it's hard at 16 (I still struggle to do it) but if you just try and accept yourself as much as you can, and once you're used to it it'll show - you can visibly tell the difference between people who do and don't. But my advice is, don't ever let anyone else tell you what 'rank' you are.

[naomi24]

tambo - and mark, ;o)

[bigfoot3000]

All of which I still don't know nothing about! Lol.

[naomi24]

Well said, Krom. Absolutely right.

[naomi24]

Bigfoot, if you don't know nothing about it, you must know all about it. ;o)

[cazzz1975]

no you are not an ugly boy, ignore the someone, chances are they know what buttons to press to offend, telling anyone they are ugly works very well as a retort as most people your age have insecurities. dont let it worry you.

[joggerjayne]

Just stand more upright ... Walk Tall !!

Imagine that piece of string through your body, and the top of your head, pulling you upwards !

[bigfoot3000]

Lol@naomi.

[Prudie]

I don't know how to open it but highlighting and search with google shows this same question has been posted on loads of forums.

How do you actually look at the picture?

[Garmard]

You should be happy in your own skin Richahern.
We all agree you are not ugly.

[Woody23]

Sorry mate, you are butt ug-a-leeee!

[Buenchico]

Maybe I'm getting cynical in my old age but I can't help thinking that the questioner is simply fishing for compliments after all that body building he's been doing. (See his Youtube page to see what I mean: https://www.youtube.com/user/Richahern12 ).

The annoying thing is that he's probably already got every young woman in Great Malvern falling at his feet ;-)

Chris

[Jemisa]

Anyway Mark what are you doing in the 'Beauty' section. Lost your way?
jem.

[Jemisa]

Anyway Mark what are you doing in the 'Beauty' section???

jem.

[mollykins]

nnnoooo, the link doesn't work for me, its not clickable!

[ChuckFickens]

You only need to copy and paste it into the address bar molly

or click below

http://www.rjaphotographs1993.piczo.com

(and what am I doing in beauty)

[mollykins]

aha, I copied and pasted it. i wouldn't say you're ugly. if you want my honest opinion, there are slightly cuter boys, but they don't tend to have muscles like yours . . . . .

[ummmm]

Copy and paste it Molly.

[LoftyLottie]

Agree with Buenchico!