Which of these should I wear to a November wedding?

[ammms01]

I am going to a wedding tomorrow and have two dresses I could wear but cant decide which dress to to go for.

One is a french connection strapless dress which is black and bright pink. I have matching pink shoes for this dress. Here is a picture (looks more red than pink in the pic).
http://www.stylehive....s-besos-dress-1108783

The other one is a Jessica Mc Clintock black and sliver dress. I have a sliver pashmina for this.
This is the closest picture I could find. It looks the same as this (black with silver flowers) but has more of a fitted pencil shape.
http://www.jessicamcc...0327&subcatname=Party Dresses&spage=1&langId=-1&parent_categor…

I have already asked my bf but the best answer I can get out of him is they're both "grand"
Which do you think would be the nicest?

[mosesg]

I like the Black and Pink one best

[B00]

Are these for the actual ceremony?

Bit OTT for that aren't they?

Both lovely for the evening do, but I personally wouldn't wear either for the ceremony itself.

[squarebear]

Me too.

[lumination]

the second one, the Jessicia one. plus cause you have that silver pashmina, you can wrap up in it when it gets a bit chilly. i would go that that one for sure.

[LoftyLottie]

Same as BOO. Great for an evening reception though.

[Lisa_Louise]

I like the second one :)

[Prudie]

agree they are more for the evening do and (not rudely) the second one is for a younger woman in my opinion but if that's you then great. The black and pink one is smarter.

[redcrx]

also depends on the weather.
Are you in the US? as the adverts are in $s?

[redcrx]

ooops sorry, did i say "adverts" when i should have said links?

[jno]

okay if the wedding's in Spearmint Rhino, I suppse; less so if it's Westminster Abbey. If that's all there is, number two and the pashmina (though a slanket might be warmer).

[daffy654]

Neither of those are suitable for the actual wedding ceremony but if it is just for the reception I would go with the first one, the second looks like something a young teen would wear to a prom.

[woofgang]

very pretty but maybe not weddingy?

[askyourgran]

I like the second one, with a pashmina. November tends to be cold and damp, would you be wearing the dress for the whole day or changing for the evening do?

[Jan1957]

Black to a wedding! Don't you have anything a bit brighter ammms? It's supposed to be a celebration.

[lindylou16]

That reminds me
The wife asked how I liked her new dress
" looked better with the potatoes in " wasn't what she wanted to hear.

[Robinia]

Maybe it's an evening wedding?
First one is the better of the two but you'd need something around your shoulders.

[bednobs]

sorry, they are both a bit hooker for a wedding, ok for a night out etc. However, you have to wear something i guess!

[anneasquith]

both lovely dresses for a party...........................but church wedding ?

[carmalee]

agree they are more party dresses than wedding outfits but imo the first one with a longish jacket may work.

[brenda]

I think the second one is super , just wear a vest and the pashmina and you will do champion.