I Am Going To Break Up With My Boyfriend But Having Trouble

[Nay37]

Im going to break up with my boyfriend because I suspect he has cheated and I can't get it out of my head, although he has denied it, but I still love him so much, what I he was telling the truth, I have to think of my son (who is 10yrs) and how it would effect him too (his biological father let when he was 6 weeks old). Advice please!!! x

[China Doll]

No one can advise you, it's your decision. Make sure you have explored all options (such as RELATE or time apart or whatever). If you feel the trust has gone and you'll never get it back then you either find a way to live with that or your slit up - no one can ever really advise on that as it's subjective.

[grasscarp]

You are going to break up over a suspicion? If you are not even sure why break up? Will being on your own be better for you? Will your son miss him? If you know what you are doing is right than go ahead, but if you have doubts .... why do it?

[woofgang]

Why do you think he cheated? I meat?an is this based on fact, hearsay, feelings, what?

[mazie]

You need to be really sure, especially if you still love him. What makes you think he's cheated?

[Dee Sa]

sit him down and tell him your suspicions, say that if he tells the truth you may be able to work round it but you cant go on worrying about it all the time, if he then admits try and find out what has gone wrong with your relationship and then decide what you want to.
A word of warning if he has not cheated and you keep accusing him then chances are he will do it, mens logic - if I am going to be accused all the time then I might as well do it, So talk sensibly to him. Good luck I hope it all works out for you.