jennyjoan - "andy how do you cope with going to the dentist"
Mind over matter - literally!
I used to be so terrified, I had to have valium to get me in the building, never mind up the strairs, through the door and into the chair!
It's not pain, i can cope with that, it is simply the sensation of having hard objects in my mouth.
When one of my children was small, my wife was unable to pick her up from school which meant i had to go, which meant I couldn't have my valium, because of driving. You do it for your kids, so I went without my valium, and the circle was broken.
I do have to make myself go to the dentist, but I do, and I just get through it with sheer willpower.