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Thank you guys, some good advice there.
The first Dols we agreed to as FIL would have left and probably have died before he got home as his lungs were so full of fluid.
My husband's name was put on it as he's next of kin.
The ward has just renewed it and I'm not sure whose name got put on it. We were just told it was renewed.
He's confused and has had 3 different beds which makes him worse as he just learns where the loo is and he's moved again. This is day 14 and they've never bothered to shower him. I'm doing his washing so know he's having bouts of incontinence during the night, mainly because he struggles to get there in time on his own.
One night they lost him, for how long we'll never know as it took them 20 minutes to find him. He was in their store cupboard looking for juice and could have drank anything if he'd decided to.
The ward they have him on is a rehabilitation ward, which would be great if he was going to live any length of time, but he isn't.
The day he was admitted he was lucid and refused to go to our local hospital as he was in there a year ago and hated it.. So he's now under a different trust to the one we live under which is causing more chaos. We tried getting him transferred and this was refused as the hospital he's in have to agree and they won't.
No we don't have power of attorney
Thank you everyone xx