Ex Girlfriend Update

[jibjab]

I know everybody is sick of my story but their is a new twist to the tale and I am unsure of what to do.... My ex broke up with me and straight away started seeing her old ex (who got her pregnant years ago and cheated on her)...anyway......I got talking to his ex who is only 18 (I have to be wary because she could be lying as ive never met her before).......

but...apparently she reckons he has genital warts and that he gave them to her, also she reckons he is still sleeping with her and that she is pregnant (he thinks she miscarried but she is keeping it). I know i should stay out of it, but this girl thinks i should tell my ex, as genital warts are very dangerous for having kids etc and sometimes arent detectable for 8 months??

Unsure what to do and wether or not to believe this girl

[B00]

Personally? I'd keep out of it- she's your ex now and no longer your concern.

[peterd]

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[4getmenot]

Stay out of it. Why is this girl telling you anyway. Are you sure she doesnt have a crush on the bloke and is trying to split him and your ex up. You cant believe every single thing you hear especially if its non of your business. This girl is no longer in your life so stop getting involved in her s**t. Why should you care. If he has got genital warts and she is pregnant again then it was her fault for not wearing protection so soon into the relationshsip. I really wish you could get on. Non of us ab ers are sick of you I think we're just all feeling sorry for you now and wish you could find someone to make you happy.

[4getmenot]

If this girl is so worried and thinks you should tell her, tell her to tell her herself if she really that bothered.

[spinchimp]

Yes - stop posting on this issue now, theres a good chap.

[redcrx]

I agree with 4getmenot.

Tell her to go and warn your ex herself if shes that concerned. Why has she told you? What does it solve? Nothing, thats what! I'd say get away and stay away from all of them.

[helliebobs]

Just stay out of it jibjab, like Boo said, she's no longer your concern.

[~Wingnut~]

Hmmm tricky one but I'm with Boo, she's no longer your concern and how do you know whether this ex of his is telling the truth? She may just be trying to stir up trouble for them both by getting you more involved. If she's concerned about your ex, the warts and the pregnancy then why doesn't she tell her herself?

She's your ex, it all sounds a very tangled web, steer clear.
Get a hobby, keep busy, find other places to drink/socialise as these people don't sound like they are doing you any favours by being around them.

[~Wingnut~]

Blimey! there were only 2 replies when I started typing! I agree with everyone else on here as well as Boo :o)

[helliebobs]

Exactly the same as I was posting my answer Wingnut!

jibjab goes to uni in the city where I live so I've already told him where to go and pull!

[Rubyrose]

Stay out of it. This 18yr old is using you to get her ex back. Don't do her dirty work for her. Stay out of it and give them all enough rope to hang themselves.

[Rubyrose]

I just realised how bad that 'enough rope to hang themselves' sounds. It means 'enough time and space to mess it up on their own'.

[caz21]

Sounds to me like this ex is jealous and trying to be vindictive, I also get the impression you two were probably bonding over your respective ex's! not in a romantic way just a it helps to talk way! keep your distance from them all! and leave them and their warts to it! and remember NO EX SEX!! ;o)

[4getmenot]

yer just accept them as a couple. Warts and all :-)

[jno]

lol 4getmenot... you're right, everyone's right, jibjab stay out of other people's fights, no good will ever come of interfering, whether she's telling the truth or not.

[Octavius]

I think this piece of advice applies in this case also.

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[WendyS]

She's your EX. Your relationship is over and done with.
You are finished. What she does now is no longer any concern of yours.

Your ex is responsible for her own behaviour and her health. Walk away, forget about her and let her get on with her life without any further interference from you.

I know it's difficult to get a former relationship out of your mind, but you already seem to recognise that this is really what you should be doing, and everybody else's responses give the same advice, so try to move on and leave her behind.

[wonderwoman1]

so you didnt take our last lot of advice to change your number??

ex means ex!!

[4getmenot]

wonderwoman you should know he never listens by now. He's probably already told the ex.