do you ever get 'me time'..very important....i have mine on a saturday afternoon when no matter what, i down tools, leave the housework and the kids (old enough to be left for 2 hours) and have lunch with the girls.....i get all dressed up...just for the 2 hours, prance in the wine bar like i got it all ...i act like i got no problems, i talk about world affairs not kids or bills, come back, put on the pj's and slob out and nobody ever knows""" hehe...its a very important time...some of the girls i lunch with have not partners or kids so i know they dont wanna talk about crap or probs in my life...try at least once...a great sense of power for 2 hours a week at least!!!!