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Hello all, I need advice to kind of get one over on someone with words.... im not too good with arguements etc and what to say!
Story is....... about this time last year I was single and fed up so decided to get in touch with my ex, not knowing he had a new gf. I kind of over reacted as he didnt wanna know and kept emailing him and dumped the stuff he had bought me outside his house. His gf got involved and started texting me etc.
I have a new boyfirend and haven't contacted him since then until a few weeks ago where I sent him a msg on a website saying 'hi how r u?' and then again after I saw him driving, none of which he replied to.
Thing is his gf has started sending me msgs like 'leave us alone' etc and 'stop pestering us' also ont he website. Personally, 2 msgs to me doesnt constitute pestering, just asking how someone is, no innuendos, no nothing!
I dont care about my ex anymore but get annoyed when his gf thinks she can send me these msgs. I am happy with my new bloke, very happy infact, but stuff like this just gets me all wound up!
I want to show her I dont care about them so does anyone have any ideas on what I cud write or how to handle the situation???
P.S. Please dont just tell me to leave it and not reply to the msgs, I want to annoy her, the vile B****!!!
Story is....... about this time last year I was single and fed up so decided to get in touch with my ex, not knowing he had a new gf. I kind of over reacted as he didnt wanna know and kept emailing him and dumped the stuff he had bought me outside his house. His gf got involved and started texting me etc.
I have a new boyfirend and haven't contacted him since then until a few weeks ago where I sent him a msg on a website saying 'hi how r u?' and then again after I saw him driving, none of which he replied to.
Thing is his gf has started sending me msgs like 'leave us alone' etc and 'stop pestering us' also ont he website. Personally, 2 msgs to me doesnt constitute pestering, just asking how someone is, no innuendos, no nothing!
I dont care about my ex anymore but get annoyed when his gf thinks she can send me these msgs. I am happy with my new bloke, very happy infact, but stuff like this just gets me all wound up!
I want to show her I dont care about them so does anyone have any ideas on what I cud write or how to handle the situation???
P.S. Please dont just tell me to leave it and not reply to the msgs, I want to annoy her, the vile B****!!!
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You say when you originally got in touch 'he didn't want to know' so why did you send him another txt msg? Perhaps he and his gf don't want a repeat of the previous time, they are not to know that you are happy with a new man. If you do want to send a msg what about telling them you are in a new relationship and happy and just wanted to say hello.
I think you should just leave it, you are both in happy relationships and you don't really have a reason to stay in touch.
i dont mean to be rude but you have continued to email, text and go to this guy's house when he doesn't want to know.
I would just let it go, he could start to see you as a stalker if you ignore the requests to leave them alone
i dont mean to be rude but you have continued to email, text and go to this guy's house when he doesn't want to know.
I would just let it go, he could start to see you as a stalker if you ignore the requests to leave them alone
Let us know the gfs email address so we can advise her to avoid the scary mary bunny boiling actions you have been inflicting upon these poor souls trying to get on with their lives.
An STD is not a laughing matter and I would consider this highly inappropriate and rather destructive to an otherwise content relationshp. Not the aactions of an adult (assuming you are) at all. Grow up and leave them alone.
An STD is not a laughing matter and I would consider this highly inappropriate and rather destructive to an otherwise content relationshp. Not the aactions of an adult (assuming you are) at all. Grow up and leave them alone.
just don't contact them/him again.
You've got your life to lead now with a new bf, and he has his with a new gf.
You've said hello/how are you, and he's decided not to reply, maybe thats his way of saying no contact is the best way of dealing with it, his gf probably feels uncomfortable with the situation hence her reaction.
Let it go
You've got your life to lead now with a new bf, and he has his with a new gf.
You've said hello/how are you, and he's decided not to reply, maybe thats his way of saying no contact is the best way of dealing with it, his gf probably feels uncomfortable with the situation hence her reaction.
Let it go
While I don't see what you would gain from this I know I'd be the same... I'd totally want to message her with something! Paul and Annie gave good answers.
When she sent you the text, did you reply?
I'd have sent back something like "While two tests doesn't constitute as pestering I can see that you'd consider me a threat. Have no fear.. I don't want him so you can sleep easy. But incase you get bored I can send you a list of my future cast offs"
or "Who is this? I take it you are the cheap looking sl*t I saw him with today at the park"
When she sent you the text, did you reply?
I'd have sent back something like "While two tests doesn't constitute as pestering I can see that you'd consider me a threat. Have no fear.. I don't want him so you can sleep easy. But incase you get bored I can send you a list of my future cast offs"
or "Who is this? I take it you are the cheap looking sl*t I saw him with today at the park"