FAO wiggal

[pastafreak]

You are probably at work now,but good luck with your meeting. Just tell it how it is! xx

[wiggal]

Pasta, thank you so much, Im just on my lunch and it was so lovely to come on here and see that you are thinking of me!
Nothing has been said yet, no meeting called or anything, so I am really really hoping it stays that way for today!
Mind you, putting it off and that is not a good thing I suppose!
I'm on lunch til 1, so at least I'm safe for a while!

:) xxx

[leelapops]

Hi pasta, you beat me to it! Saw wiggal's post this morning when I trawled through CB...Hope she is OK!
Hey wiggal, how are you honey? IS everything OK? I must say, I think you are right: you should take the initiative maybe and suggest a meeting yourself? I know it is a big move, but then the ball is very much in your court-it rectifies the power imbalance, and gives you control over the situation. Just a thought, while the mood is there.
Hope the fur-family are all OK! XX

[wiggal]

Hey leela :)

Was just reading your reply to my reply to your question in A & N! If that makes sense!
Things are Ok ta, I think if I do initiate a meeting myself, it wont be today as I went to bed really late last night and not feeling on top form so likely to be even more emotional then normal! Plusif I wait I will have longer to get what I want to say straight in my head!
Really just hope I dont get called in this afternoon though! EEEEEK!

The fur - family are great ta, Cefa has had the all clear from the vets about her heart murmour and infection after being spayed, and Cleo & Ashke are as nuts as always!
Hows little Jack doing?

I'm off to my sisters for the night tommorow so staying at mums this evening, Alan is staying home to look after the pets, but after leaving this morning I wont see my babies til Saturday :( N I hate it!!

xxxx

[leelapops]

It makes sense to me hun! :) I see what you are saying definitely, you don't want to lose your focus and get a bit wound up, as it doesn't solve much if you aren't in the right frame of mind. Do it soon hun, for all of us! Because it is horrible to be bullied, and most of all it is ENTIRELY unacceptable, and now illegal, I think. If you get called in this afternoon (I wouldn't put it past B, trying to catch you off guard!) make sure it is ALL written down, so you have something to work off, and take a big deep breath, go in there, know you re FABULOUS, and really sock it to her!
Glad all is well otherwise, but I bet you must miss them all when you are away. Have a great time with your mum and sis, and give the babies lots of cuddles on your return!
x

[pastafreak]

oooo...don't know if you will see this wiggal....but I kept thinking about you and your prob today. I hope that whatever happens-whether you had your meeting today or next week-you know all of us here on AB are behind you.....that should give you some extra confidence in yourself. xx