Do you put a face on??

[puddicat]

Hey.do you put a face on to get through the day but underneath you are crying inside???

[dot.hawkes]

gravitate you have offended someone in tehcnology who is worried her kids might read your garbage, maybe you should aplogise to her, i dare you

[legendis.god]

In all honesty if youre so sad then id try to do something about it.
People will be helpful at first and give advice , but after a while people lose their sympathy and you need to get on with sorting things or you end up wallowing in self pity.

If your lifes that bad over a long period then you need to sit down and try to plan a future or at least a way out of the sadness/depression.

Ultimately you can only help yourself tho.

[puddicat]

Think legend thinks i should respond here i am listening all i wanted was to hear honest replies, dont have to be involved in everyones view thank you legend!!!

[smudge]

Not always that simple legend. Unless you know what problems people have, best to keep remarks like that to yourself.

[smudge]

....Although I can understand the positive things you're trying to put over.

[puddicat]

Thanks smudge dont like a not no it all!!!

[cab]

All the time

[smudge]

You're welcome puddi. Hope you feel better soon. -x-

[B00]

I didn't think puddicat was after 'solutions' anyway- she just made a statement.

[legendis.god]

smudge complete facts .
if you constantly go on about how sad you are you eventually alienate your friends and family.
ive read on here enough times about folk avoiding their friend whos so self engrossed in their sadness.
the best advice you can give someone is that they need to sit and gather their thoughts etc and make some sort of life change.

its simple really.if youre unhappy with your life you need to do something to change it.leaving it as is wone help and will make you worse.

sorry puddi but you just turned on some of the best and most honest advice anyone will give you.


why folk constantly seek advice with no intention of taking it i will never know.

[numberouno]

hi. if you feel this way more often than not - can i suggest start with doc. even just talking can help. they may be able to put you onto a counsellor. you may need medication or alternative therapies.
i am currently being treated for PTSD and depression and can soo relate to your feelings. only you can truly help you. youve done the first step by asking us, the rest will be easier.......good luck

[legendis.god]

Boo isimply saw this as afolow on from her other posts over the last year.

Maybe i was wrong.
But ifshes truly that unhappy then she needs to get herself out of this rut.
If not tehn it wont improve.

But hey i did try to be helpful , if its not required i could post other stuff .BUt why not post what you honestly think?especially if its honest and may help ?

[smudge]

Yeah, I know all that legend, but trying to make puddi feel better - not preached to.

[puddicat]

mr god u havent a scoobie about most things, this is my thread so unless u are going to give some tangible advice stay out, u cant help ure self can u, u have to post, u havent a answer so why post!!!!

[legendis.god]

i have gven you many answers.

i was giving some tried and tested advice.

first thing you gotta do is realise its not preaching , its advice , take it or not.


if i was preaching id say pull yourself together and sort your life out.

noone can do it for you.

and running away from problems only makes them worse.



now smudge and puddi thats preaching.

and if this is a private thread i suggest using email or msn .
its a public forum and i gave a straight honest answer only to be rounded on.


no need to take your temper out on me ,

[legendis.god]

and on elast thing puddicat.daont presume that you know me as you dont.i tried to help you have merely tried to insult.

perhaps if you are as viceral as this in reallife that may be part of your problem.

ill leave you to yourse�f here.but i suggest thinking before posting if all you want is folk saying poor you.


quite frankly its sad when folk do that and pitiful.
firm but honest advice may sound cold but will do you much more good.


pointless answering it would seem.

[puddicat]

dum de dum de dum legend please spell right lol!

[legendis.god]

As i said theres nothing wrong with your sarcasm.

Seems that youre fine now?

Well i must have helped then.


Take note folks :: 0)



Anyways things to do.


Enjoy yourself


HAPPY TO HELP : 0 )

[legendis.god]

And always remember its easy to put a face on ,










if youre two faced to start with : 0)



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[cazzz1975]

I tend not to put on a face, If I have the grumps people are going to know about it, I always believe in sharing my misery as well, talking through your problems can help you solve them or at least make decisions that will make you feel a little more positive