men liking young girls or at least the young girl LOOK...

[joko]

i have been talking to a number of male friends lately, an a number of them have expressed a liking for 12-14 year old girls...

they also prefer their girlfriends to be pubicly shaved

and also love the idea of school uniforms

all were quite clear in stating they wouldnt dream of actually doin anything with an underage girl - they just like the look of them

and to be clear it is not prepubescent girls...its young 'women'

is this common? i knew some liked it...but had no idea how common it was...

is this due to how things were for them when they first discovered girls perhaps...?
ie, their first crushes, their first girlfriend, their first even thoughts of girls perhaps...and its a kind of almost nostalgia...?.

id be interested in genuine answers from men please.

(please no 'paedophile' rants...im aware of this aspect already...i want genuine thoughts, whether 'wrong or right')

thanks

[johnny7]

How old are your male friends? They sound like potential paedophiles.

[B00]

Got to be honest joko, im horrified at the expressed a liking for 12-14 year old girls... bit. Do you mean they find them sexually attractive? If so, I'd seriously re-think my friendships with them!

Mr Boo likes school uniforms- however he likes women to be in them, not children. He likes the womanly curves inside them, something with he wouldn't/ couldn't associate with 12 year olds. According ot him he likes the fact that the uniform is supposed to represent innocence- but the body inside (hopefully) doesn't.

[ladybird49]

If i knew any of my friends "liked 12-14 yr old girls " in the way you describe i wouldnt stay friends with that sort of person - sorry to say this but it rings alarm bells of paedophile to me

[joko]

well theyre not friends exactly...just people i speak to in the pub

yes they meant it sexually....

as i say they like the womanly curves too...

i believe many men like the school uniform thing...but i doubt all are thinking "ooh a woman in a school uniform!" - many are probably fantasising that it is genuinely a schoolgirl...

[B00]

I dunno joko to be honest. I guess us being women don't know for certain what men are thinking about all this. All i know is that Mr Boo says he definitately doesn't find 12 year olds sexually attractive. I like to think that's because he really doesn't and it's not just something he says because he knows i'd be mortified if he says otherwise!!!

[joko]

thats probably true boo, for most men...but many wouldnt admit it though would they...

all those spoken to were keen to make sure i understood that they would never dream of actually doing anything with an underage girl...and the girls looked 'womanly' not like children...but young all the same...

just wonder what the diffence - physically - between a 14 year old and and 16 year old actually is...one is legal one is not... but in terms of visually , is there any real difference?

[legendis.god]

You mix with some strange people.
I did read in todays daily mail about a 39 year old air cadets instructor whos in court for having sex with a 13 year old ( who has since committed suicide ) and a 15 year old.

With any luck he will be sent to prison where he will become a reformed character after a few healthy beatings.

Its not normal and its actually very disturbing.

Id change pubs if i was you.

[tigwig]

Well I'm not a man but I would like to give my opinion! I find this a bit strange to be honest and I'm not saying they are 'paedos' but it would set alarm bells ringing a little and I would think theyy were weird!
I for one would be a bit disturbed if a man wanted me to shave my pubic hair and I have done this in the past, not for a man but for myself (for a laugh). My hubby actually said he didn't like it cos it made him feel like a pervert!

[ummmm]

I think it's more common than people think.

I do think they want a developed school girl so about the age of 14 and above. I think it's the idea that they might be a virgin etc etc.

It's only a fantasy though and not reality.

[B00]

But there is a massive difference between thinking and doing Legend.

Even so though Joko- I'd still be bloody horrified if Mr Boo or indeed any of my male friends said they found 12 year olds sexually attractive. But like I said, how many don't say owt because they know they'll be vilified, I honestly don't know, and in the case of Mr Boo especially, I'd rather really not know.

It does make you wonder though, out of all the christ knows how many school uniform sex outfits are sold are put on by women whilst their men fantasise the're really children <shudder>

[legendis.god]

I dont doubt that boo.

I still stand by my post.

Its merely my opinion.

[joko]

I realise this is a sensitive subject for many but im not really concerned with the legal aspects here - i am well aware of them - and i am not in any way supporting them.

im purely interested in human nature, in sexual desire, in thought processes of males...whether right or wrong

are some of these sorts of desires out of our control?

in the same way i fancy men with long hair an beards an slim 'pretty' features... and could never fancy a 'phil mitchell-alike'... that is not a choice i have 'made'...it just is what i like...
do we have any real choice?
can a person say to themselves 'no, thats wrong' an just stop the desire...?? - For real i mean.
or would they just be suppressing and ignoring it.

bearing in mind age 16 is an age our country has given as an age limit...many other countries have different ages, and so have many ancient cultures...

(an i mean desire as in a liking for, not actually doing anything)

[B00]

Think you're going to be hard pressed to get answers in the affirmative on this particular topic Joko. I can't see any male members of 'ere saying that yes ,they rather fancy 12 year olds!!

[Billy-Hunt]

is anyone else wondering if tigwig as a funnyfanny?

[joko]

interesting ummm...i hadnt really thought of the 'virgin' aspect...

perhaps also theres a power thing...?

so more than it being a 'physical' attraction...it could be more 'mental'...and what innocence etc signifies to them...

[Billy-Hunt]

did it make you laugh then tigs ?

it's making me laugh and i haven't even seen it.

[joko]

you're probably right boo..i sort of hoped some might 'go green' in order to answer honestly

[luxury]

Hi Joko,

During your conversation with said 'weirdos' did you not ask them how and why they had this thought process?

Genuine thought btw :)

[joko]

yeh i did, but they kind of just shrugged and because we were in the pub we didnt get too deeply into it...not really the right circumstances...

i expect many of them didnt really know...they just did...