relationship or an escuse

[postage]

why would a man of 32 years not want to sleep with his wife every day and only want to once a month as a duty?? he's honest. so whats the secret??

[boxtops]

Age has got nothing to do with it, everyone has different levels of sex drive. Some people hardly ever "do it" and it's not a problem for them, other people want to get on the job all the time. Depends how long they've been married, their personalities - loads of things. Perhaps this chap doesn't doesn't a have high sex drive and is happy with his relationship as it is - as long as she is too, that's fine.

[Sqad]

1) He`s gay
2) He doesnt fancy her.
3) He´s got another woman.
4) He´s got a STD and had been told not to.

[snags]

He doesn't find her attractive any more...

He's getting it elsewhere...

He's depressed/stressed...

He doesn't have a high sex drive...

He's gay...

[boxtops]

Tell it like it is, sqad!

[Old_Geezer]

You'd need to ask him. Maybe he is not that highly sexed, once a month is enough for him. Or maybe he has physical problems. Not everyone feels the need to be at it every chance.

[society]

5) She's ugly
6) She's smelly

[Sqad]

soc.......LOL........I could do it even if she was ugly......but not smelly.

[postage]

they 've known each other for 10 years, she had a baby 7 months ago - she is very pretty
he's not haveing it elsewhere he just does want to.
Gay?? may be but why would he keep it hidden for 10 years.

[boxtops]

Aw, come on guys - perhaps he gets it once a month because it's HIM that's smelly and ugly! (mind you, ugly guys... hmmm)

[snags]

He's getting his kicks from online porn?

[postage]

nooooooooooooooooooo she's not smelly... or fishy she clean mate good looking .

[McMouse]

He might be 32 but if she is 89..............

[boxtops]

He's just not bothered postage, don't listen to 'em, there are no rules for frequency.

[Sqad]

McM.......yeah! but a pretty 89 year old ;-)

[snags]

I know this is radical but how about just asking him the reason?

[society]

Perhaps the man is only allowed to take Viagra once per month? Doctor's order..

[McMouse]

Well I suppose sqad. An old friend of mine always said that the best age for a woman was 65, because she thought every time might be her last time and so put everything into it.

[boxtops]

I'll remember that, mcmouse

[Sqad]

McM...well I have had experience of a 75 year old ( no mrs sqad is 10years younger) and this woman was fabulous............game for anything ;-)

[postage]

listen guys she's 31 nothing wrong with her, he told her some stories that he's mates are saying when a woman has a baby your sex life suffers ................LOL that was nearly year ago