what do you do when

[ooh-la-la]

the only person that can stop you from crying is the person that made you cry in the first place?

[B00]

Make sure no one finds out where you buried them.

[redman41]

You bash him with your new Mop ! ;-))

[woofgang]

toxic relationship......walk

[ooh-la-la]

pmsl!!! ow my days i love you guys on here :-) xx

[sara3]

don't ever cry over a man, no no no no NO!!

[LoftyLottie]

Unfortunate isn't it that those that we love most are the ones most likely to make us cry. People I don't care about never make me cry. I don't think there is anything we can do about it really. It's just life. Only people we love or care for can really hurt us in my opinion.

[Old_Geezer]

Have a good cry ?

[LoftyLottie]

The only time I ever cry in front of my man is if I am angry. Angry, frustrated tears. If he hurts me I cry by myself. I think he is the same.

[ooh-la-la]

yeah i think your 100% right lottie, it sucks so bad though :-(

[LoftyLottie]

Old Geezer, you are right. A good cry is nothing to be ashamed of.

[Cowtipper]

I'm with Geezer. But once you get done think about why you need them this bad if they just make you hurt.

[LoftyLottie]

Yes, it's horrible, but after your good cry you will feel better and probably then will feel angry and then you will feel stronger and just get on with life!!

I have to admit that the only person I have ever really hurt is probably my OH. And I also have to admit that I have hurt him intentionally at times, possibly because I have been so angry that hurting him has been the only thing I can retaliate with. People don't always act wisely.

[snags]

'' don't ever cry over a man ''

Unless they are tears of frustration because you can't get the knife out of his back...

[LoftyLottie]

I would agree if someone makes you cry all the time or hurts you all the time. That is the time to walk!! But I can't think that many people in long term relationships escape ever being hurt by each other. We all do and say things we regret from time to time.

[LoftyLottie]

LOL snags. That sounds about right!!

[rowanwitch]

depends what they did and if they are sad tears... time out...think about it and make sure the patio stones are nice and level when you leave the house...

[China Doll]

I've never been in the position where the person that made me cry can stop me from crying, generally if they made me cry in the first place then I want to knife them.... speaking of which, anyone seen my knife?

[puddle-duck]

I agree with Loftylottie. It's the ones who we are close to that we hurt the most.

[Scarlett]

Nonsense- try your best friend for cheer, and forget about the idiot who upset you. :)

[ooh-la-la]

thank you for all your answers. He has stoped me feeling:-( for now but don't know how long it will last for, and your right a good cry does make you feel so much better xx