my girlfriend hasn't spoke to me properly in a week. What should i do?

[swinarni]

i few weeks ago i did a very stupid thing. Now i havnt cheated on my girl and i never would i love her more than anythin in the world but when i was drunk a few weeks ago i groped one of my girlfrieds best friends boobs (with her consent obviously). This eventually came to my girls knowledge. We talked about things and made up, she fell out with her friend. However, last week our group of friends all went out for a mutual friends birthday and my girl and her friend made up again and now shes not talkin to me properly and goin out with her friend gettin drunk almost every night. Iv apoligized so many times and thought thinks were fine until last week. Now i just dont no what to do. She wont talk to me and discuss things and i feel like shes pushing me away and doesn't care. Any advice please?

[Jan1957]

Could you put that in sentences with full stops and come back again?

[China Doll]

I wouldn't be talking to you either. Leave her to it and after two weeks with no contact, assume that the relationship is over.

[Sqad]

Ok...you have apologised, she apparently has't accepted, so move on, groping someone else's t1ts isn't the brightest thing to do, but it is not a "hanging offence"

She will come back, but if she doesn't, then life goes on.

[Ratty2E]

Well it wasn't the brightest thing to do but I'm sure you've learnt a lesson. This so called best friend needs to take part of the responsibility as you say she 'gave her permission'. Why would you encourage your best friends boyfriend to grope you? Not the sort of girl I'd want as a friend at all and it is double standards to forgive her and not you. It all seems a bit odd to me, and sounds like this best friend has turned your girlfriend against you in some way, frankly they both sound very immature. You can't sort out anything of she won't talk so if I were you I'd leave her and her best friend to get on with it and walk away.

[smoochiegal]

you shouldn't have groped another bird if you're in a rel, pissed or not it shows no respect for the woman you're going out with. Why the hell her friend would agree to you groping her beggers belief as well. I think you need to draw a line under it and move on

[feona]

That's really weird on your part..even I would have acted this way. but if you really love her..try approaching her. After all she loves you too so she will forgive you.

[mazie]

"when i was drunk a few weeks ago i groped one of my girlfrieds best friends boobs (with her consent obviously). "

Did you ask her if you could feel her or did she invite you to?

When your Girlfriend and her friend made up, perhaps her girlfriend gave her a different story as to what happened when you were drunk !
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[merciasounds]

Well, there's not much more you can do now is there? - Sit tight, and if she doesn't come round, well, she doesn't feel for you what you do for her, and it's time to call it a day. If she comes around, ask her what she wants - you weren't TOTALLY to blame ok, you shouldn't have groped, but her friend SHOULD have minded - say that to her - why should her friend be forgiven and you not?